⛧it's been a few wipes since i got my piercing. thinking about getting more. https://i.postimg.cc/mgYJWx90/Divoky-Artifact.png⛧
TW: #rain69wdrinking #implied6l99d They're well aware 9f my tendencies, with varying levels 9f receptiveness t9 my w9rds. I w9uld als9 c9nsider many 9f them less 'friends', and m9re 'disciples.'
9h, they're fully aware. I am n9thing if n9t transparent. Whether 9r n9t they agree with my designating them as such is up t9 their discreti9n.
⛧the fact they're not whole-heartedly agreeing to being your disciples, but you call them that anyways, is lacking a key concept i'm sure you'd backflip over. its called consent, fucko. calling them your disciples when they dont want to be called that, or barely agree to have you talking their soundreceptors off is a dubious proposition at best.⛧
I'm frankly insulted that y9u think I w9uldn't respect their c9nsent (TW: #c9nsent #n9nc9nsent) and in fact I strive t9 ensure 9ur dial9gues are as c9mf9rta6le as p9ssi6le f9r them! If any 9f them have a pers9nal issue with me, my meth9ds, 9r h9w I refer t9 them, then 6elieve me when I say they w9uld make it a6undantly clear. And I, in turn, w9uld ensure a lengthy and in-depth c9nversati9n such that we c9uld get t9 the r99t 9f th9se misguided feelings.
⛧you calling their comfort ‘misguided’ makes you more of a creep than i am⛧
TW: #harmfullanguage #misinterpretati9n Y9u misunderstand. I care deeply a69ut their c9mf9rt, and every dial9gue we have includes c9untless warnings, caveats and reminders that we may st9p at any p9int sh9uld they feel unc9mf9rta6le 9r triggered 6y any t9pics 9r phrasing I am I mean we are discussing, with a piv9t t9wards figuring 9ut h9w t9 c9ntinue with less harmful w9rding 9r skipping 9ver t9pics entirely. I call their feelings misguided n9t in an attempt t9 d9wnplay their em9ti9ns and 9pini9ns, 6ut instead t9 highlight my c9mmitment t9 ensuring their enj9yment and engagement 9f my w9rk: Sh9uld they feel unc9mf9rta6le, then clearly s9me mistake has 6een made that must 6e rectified, as my w9rds are intended 9nly t9 help - n9t t9 harm.
⛧think you need to shut up and listen more often. maybe then they wouldn't want to avoid you. as helpful as you want to be, the more you hammer them with it, the less they want to be around you.⛧
I resent such implicati9ns. I listen. I learn. I have dedicated my entire existence t9 such, and t9 6eing c9nfident in my 6eliefs and w9rds. I will n9t "shut up" unless d9ing s9 is the clear 6est r9ute t9 preventing harm, which currently is n9t s9mething I have enc9untered. Frankly, telling an 9ff-spectrum (#castesystem #hem9spectrum) individual such as myself t9 6e quiet is d9wnright insulting c9nsidering 9ur w9rds are s9 9ften sp9ken 9ver and dismissed as idle 6a66le (#9ppressi9n) as th9ugh 9ur th9ughts and feelings d9 n9t deserve t9 6e heard. The insinuati9n that my disciples implicitly dislike and av9id me is a hurtful 9ne; y9u d9 n9t kn9w them, y9u d9 n9t kn9w me. Y9u d9n't kn9w what 9ur dynamic is. They might 6e extremely eager t9 listen, 6ut simply p9ssess 9ther, m9re pressing resp9nsi6ilities, which I w9uld n9t slight them f9r. And even if it is the case that they malign me, I welc9me it with 9pen arms. It is my 6urden t9 6ear, and w9uld rather they har69ur hatred f9r me and my w9rds than f9r each 9ther.
⛧you know how you could have avoided this whole issue? leaving me the fuck alone. i think you have some friends you gotta convince you're not a burden to.⛧