⋆♤˚⟡˖ "i Have Known My Kismesis For Roughly Ten Sweeps And I Am Concerned That We Are Drifting Apart Due To Our Hatred Becoming Stale I Struggle To Regard Her As Anything But My Closest And Dearest Friend As Shameful As That Is We Have Known Each Other For So Long I Cannot Think Of Her Any Other Way And I Am Frustrated With My Desire To Pap Or Console Her Through Every Day Struggles Rather Than Snip Or Berate Her Should I Make These Feelings Known Or Should I End This Relationship Or Is There Another Way I Can Rekindle Our Pitch Relationship I Do Not Want To Lose Her But I Am Terrified Of A Life Without Her In It" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice Again, We Greatly Apologise For The Delay, But We Hope We Can Still Be Of Assistance. If Not, Then We Hope This May Help Someone Else With A Similar Issue. Firstly, Ten Sweeps Is A Very Long Time, Your #quadrant Has Lasted Longer Than This Most Recent Generation Of Adults Has Been Alive. I Believe That Alone Is Worth Some Type Of Commendation And Congratulations! Such A Long #relationship Means You Must Have A Strong Communication And Bond With Each Other, Which We Love To See, And I Promise That There Is Nothing Wrong With Feelings Having Shifted Over Such A Long Period Of Time. The Fact You Still Hold Her In Such A High Regard Even After The #pitch Feelings Have Shifted Is Amazing. Kudos To You! Of Course, With Your Relationship Being One Shade For So Long, We Can Understand The Turmoil That Comes With That Changing. It Must Be Incredibly Difficult For You. My First Question For You, As You've Described Your Feelings Clearly, Is Do You Know Hers? ~ Does She Also Seem Disinterested In Hurting You? ~ Is This Followed By More Protective Actions Such As Giving You Advice Or Guiding You Away From Danger? ~ These May Both Be Very Subtle, It Is Worth Looking At The Way She Phrases Her Insults Or Gripes To See If They Are Phrased As Complaints Or Perhaps More Phrased As Guidance. If One Or More Of These Are True, She May Be Experiencing Something Similar. Not Matter What, We Recommend Bringing It Up To Her. With Such A Strong Relationship, Ending Things Without Discussing Future Actions Would Just Be A Shame. Tell Her The Feelings Are Becoming Less Pitch And More #pale, Maybe A Combination Of Both, And Remember That Quadrants Were Made To Be Blurred! Tell Her Of Your Desire To See Her Prosper, To Console Her When She Is Upset. There Will Be One Of Multiple Outcomes: ~ She Returns These Feelings. You Can Define Your New Relationship However You Want, Be In Whichever Quadrant You Want. You Are Very Able To Be #moirails And Still Take Part In Pitch Activities, And You Are Able To Be Pitch And Care About Your #kismesis' Well-being! ~ She Is Still Purely Pitch For You, Does Not Share The Pale Feelings, And Wishes To Stay That Way. In This Case You Start An Open Discussion About How You Can Fan The Flames Of Your Hate And Distaste For One Another. Spice Things Up A Bit, Switch Up Your Fighting Styles, Try Something New With Each Other! Insult Each Other In Ways You Never Have, Turn Your Hate Into A Fun Game. ~ Feelings Have Changed Enough That She No Longer Feels As Pitch, But Also Does Not Feel As Though She Can Keep Going, Pale Or Otherwise. This Option Is The Unfortunate One Where You Will Have To Break Up.. I Hope And Wish For You Both That You Can Remain Platonic Friends Because This Really Is A Shame, But That Is For You Two To Discuss Between Yourselves. Remember Your Relationship Is What You Want It To Be. #goodluck ♠ #quadrantconundrums ♦