Um- Our Quad Professional ( Mea ) Is Still Sick ( She Has An Infection (｡ŏ﹏ŏ) ) And With Vraz ( Our Grouchy Guppy ) Being Banned From Answering For Being Unprofessional, I Suppose It's My Turn To Try And Answer.. So! ⋆♤˚⟡˖ "My Kismesis And I Got In A Fight, But Not Like Our Normal Fun Fights. I Got Really Upset With Her But Then She Said She Needed Space And Its Been Weeks & I'm Fine Now I'm Ready To Talk But She Still Needs Space? She's Like "working On Herself" Or Some Bullshit And I'm 90% Sure She's Talking To Someone Really Dangerous. How Long Do I Let This Go On Before I Just Threaten To Break Up For Real." ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ ~ This Question Has Been Edited To Protect The Identity Of The User. #advice After Looking Through Your Account, This Seems To Be Quite A Difficult Situation. First I Would Like To Offer My.. Sympathies? Condolences? One Of Those. ~ Also Yes We Do Look Through Accounts So We Can Have More Perspective, That Is Why We Ask For The Chittr Handle. We Can Still Give Advice Without It But It Is Better To Have It! From An Outside Perspective It Seems That There Was A Misunderstanding Where Things Were Said And Comments Were Taken Out Of Context. Feelings Were Hurt In A Bad Way. Some Space In This Situation Is Actually A Good Thing, So I Will Commend You For That! You Made A Good Choice There. however, When Space Is Needed It Means That There Needs To Be Minimal Contact Until Things Have Settled, And Being Constantly Contacted Can Reset That Moment Of Space. On The Other Hand, You Have Made Your Request For Communication Quite Clear! Your Care For Their Safety Shows That Your #pitch Feelings, If A Bit Clingy, Are Coming From A Healthy Place - You Do Not Want Them Genuinely In Danger. But Even If They Are Not Responding To You, As Long As They Are Safe Everything Should Be Alright. Asking Others To Check In Was Good At First But Now You Need To Give Them Some Proper Time To Work Through Their Thoughts. If You Are Worried They're Falling Into A Bad Crowd, Tell Their Friends And Let Them Handle It, And Keep Yourself Away From The Situation. As For The Break-up Question.. Take A Long Think. Is That What You Want? You Have A Valid Reason; You Made Your Need For #communication Clear And They Haven't Been Doing That. You've Shown You Don't Appreciate Being Ignored Or The Silence. But Is This A Behaviour You're Willing To Deal With If The Relationship Goes Forwards? If Yes, Then You Should Wait It Out, Try To Do Something To Keep Your Mind Off It. If No, I Think You Have Your Answer.. If You Do Decide That Breaking Up Is The Answer, You Need To Phrase It As Plainly As Possible. Tell Them You Don't Appreciate The Radio Silence And Are Considering Ending The Relationship If Things Don't Improve. You Need To Have A Calm Discussion About This, So Keep Any Pitch Feelings And Non-pitch Disgruntlement Out Of It. Only Say This If You Are Willing To Go Through With A Break Up. We Wish You The Best Of Luck! ♠ #quadrantconundrums ♠