Okay. Okay.. This One Took Quite A While To Think Of Because We Had To Confer The Best Way To Answer. ⋆♤˚⟡˖ "everyone Hates My Matesprit. His Divisive Nature Wasn't Really Something That Impacted The Actual Relationship, But Now I'm Having Doubts. I'm Starting To Worry They're Right About Him. I Feel Brushed Aside. I Feel Like He's, Intentionally Or Not, Dangling His Attention Over My Head, Making Me Jump For It. It's All Really Starting To Impact Me, And I Feel Like I Can't Even Talk To Anyone About It Because They'll Jump To Telling Me To Finally Dump Him. Worst Of All, I Worry That If I Bring It Up To Him, He'll Find A Way To Get Out Of It. What Should I Do?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ ~ Conundrum Has Been Heavily Edited To Take Out Possible Identifying Details, But Still Keeping In The Core Themes. We Will Still Address The Other Parts As Best We Can. #advice #matesprit #emotionalabuse Taking A Quick Peek Over Your Profile, We Get The Feeling That You Are An Incredibly Reasonable Person, That You Take Advice When You Can. If You Weren't You Wouldn't Be Reaching Out To Us In The First Place. We Do Not Know Who Your Matesprit Is, We Neglected To Look On Purpose So We Couldn't Be Swayed In Case We Too Had Opinions. I'm Afraid To Say, Much Like Your Friends Would, That It May Be Time To Pull The Plug. You Recognise That He Is Not A Good Person, And While That Didn't Effect You At First You Are Now Experiencing The Same Thing Other People Warned You About. Remember That Your Opinions Right Now Are Based Purely On The Way He Has Been Treating You, Not Other Factors, But Even Then It Would Be Perfectly Fine To Break Up With Someone Who Didn't Respect Your Friends And The Other People You Care About, And He Certainly Is Not Respecting You. Usually We Recommend Talking To A Partner, Telling Them How You Feel And Gauging Their Reaction And Receptiveness To The Feedback; But In Your Case You Say You Are Afraid That If You Do That He Will Not Take It On Board And Will Just Somehow End In You Rolling Over And Forgiving Him. I Feel Like That Alone Should Tell You The Correct Course Of Action. More Than Anything. More Than The Way He Treats Others, More Than What Your Friends Tell You To Do, More Than The Uneasy Feeling Settling In Your Gut.. You Should Not Be Afraid Or Nervous About Telling Your Matesprit How You Feel. You Should Not Be Worried They'll React Badly Or That Nothing Will Change. You Should Be Able To Come To Them With A Problem And Expect At Least A Compromise, If Not A Satisfying Conclusion. Please Take Some Time To Think.. Are You Okay With This Being The Rest Of Your Life? Are You Okay With Feeling Like You Are Walking On These Enamel Shells? Are You Okay With Feeling This Way Every Time You Are Brushed Aside And Can't Tell Anyone About It? If Not, You Know The Answer To Your Question. Our Dms Are Open If You Would Like To Converse More. ♥ #quadrantconundrums ♥