#aspe(ttalk 6/12 - mind we leave the destru(tive aspe(ts behind, now, but before we hit the (reative, we’ve got one of the in-betweens here. when someone is a hero of mind, 7ou get (ertain ideas in 7our head. intelle(t. logi(. (hoosing the right paths through reason and dedu(tion. and 7ou’d be right, to some degree. mind is all about seeing those paths that go this wa7 or that, finding out whi(h leads to whi(h, weighing the pros and (ons. the mind of a mind pla7er is like a super(omputer simulating man7 out(omes, seeing the results of all the out(omes. the (hoosing is more important than the smartness, reall7. when it (omes to nature versus nurture, mind is the aspe(t of nurture. 7ou are what 7ou (hoose to do. 7our a(tions are the important thing, as are other people’s. this leads to mind being the aspe(t of lies and fa(ades. 7ou ma7 feel awful, but 7ou put on a brave fa(e and do what’s needed. that sorta thing. 7ou (hoose to be brave and oka7, and that’s what realit7 is. and, similarl7, it deals with what people do. who (ares if the7 felt reall7 bad, the7 did something bad, and that is what matters. it’s hard to reall7 argue with it, even as a heart pla7er. who (ares what’s in 7our heart? 7ou (an sit there 7earning for someone all 7ou want, but that doesn’t matter if 7ou don’t do an7thing about it. food for thought, all 7ou lonel7 people out there.