In what way is quad flirting with a human beneficial? I realize this is from a place with the level of ignorance that would weigh me with the same misaligned scales as a literal sock pile, but being ignorant nails my point in with the proverbial scrubbed media hammer. It almost seems like cultural appropriation, if I gave a shit about that. If there are very clear rules to each quad and an explanation as to why they're in use, in what way could a human be fit to be in any role outside of flushed?
I'm not saying don't fuck humans since I benefit from that. I'm saying recognizing attributes like arguing during sex to be a pitch flirt seems a little strange when ultimately I don't need a rival to train for when something bigger and badder comes to essentially eat me. #nsfw #vore
Because humans and Earthnoids in general have all four quadrants naturally, they just don't always have the words to describe it unless they've had contact with trolls? That's why we get people using neologisms like "queerplatonic" that have a really bad mouthfeel to describe what most people would just call a moirallegiance.
I disagree fundamentally. The base form of a pale relationship is for a low blood to calm a high blood when they're enraged to prevent a mass murder spree. Queerplatonic relationships are acknowledged as a friendship in which you take all the active roles a romantic relationship would without the romantic aspects. This is beneficial for the ace/aro community or for two people who are just not into each other romantically. Moirailegence is a romantic relationship ship. That's why it's part of the romance system.
You were lost the moment you invoked evolutionary psychology. The "base form of a pale relationship" is a normal pale relationship, not some "this is PROBABLY why they exist" hypothetical. Moirallegiance is categorized as a "type of romance" by troll society because it's convenient to have a word that encompasses all four quadrants. This does not mean it would be considered a romance by Earthnoid standards. What Earthnoids use the word "romance" to mean is "concerning the flushed quadrant exclusively while ignoring the other three." So a typical human would see a moirallegiance as non-romantic, thus the horrendous neologism. A "queerplatonic relationship" IS a pale relationship. It's the same emotions in the same combinations to the same effect. You can literally just say pale. The definition you use for "queerplatonic" is both misleading verbiage, and offensive to people who are actually on the ace spectrum, as it implies that you believe that a pale relationship is no different from a really strong friendship, rather than acknowledging it for what it actually is, an in-between state. The reason the awful neologism was invented is that "queer" is being used in the sense of "transcend a boundary" for some reason even though nobody would naturally come to that conclusion unless it was explained to them.
You're contradicting yourself. You can't call a pale relationship non-romantic then get upset by assuming others view it as a strong friendship. Also subjectively lazy that everyone goes for the low hanging fruit on this argument which is moirailegence. Argue to me how auspicism is equivocal to a natural human relationship. Should I need a third party to keep my relationship from growing toxic I'd go to a counselor. Am I in some bastardized three-way relationship with our therapist? The rules for the system might be archaic but there is a baseline. I'm not out here on my soapbox saying to limit yourself to your own species. I'm not the alien cock police. But effectively there seems to be a bigger conversation about whether or not these relationships are flushed with extra steps.
I am getting upset because you are not acknowledging that pale relationships are an in-between state. They're not a friendship and they're not a romance, they're a secret third thing. That's, again, why the awful neologism uses "queerplatonic" to mean "on the boundary of platonic and not platonic." I went for moirallegiance because it has a name that's readily comprehensible by most sufficiently-online Earthnoids, but sure, fuck it, let's go in deep. Yes, auspisticism is naturally occuring in Earthnoids. As a Heart player, and thus a mechanic of identity, you should understand this better than anyone, and it's genuinely baffling to me that you don't. The instinct to form ashen triads is extremely strong and a basic component of any social species' behavior. You're seriously telling me that you've never felt it yourself from either the mediator side or the side being mediated, or alternatively that you have but that you didn't recognize it as its own distinct thing? And just to make sure we're all on the same page here: If you're allo and yet have never felt pitch attraction I genuinely feel bad for you.
Pause. Involving your own emotions is counterproductive. If you're getting upset you might need to put this one down.
Nyeh. Just a social construct. Nothin’ more to it than that. A human makes you feel a certain wvay, you use wvhatevwer language you got to describe it.