I know bondage is about restrictions and trust but it can al·lso be dangerous. If your sub is making faces or noises that arent anything pl·leasure rel·lated stop, if they have a gag take it out or open the mask and ask if they are ok. Do they have a safe word, ? Ask them if theyre in pain or are feel·ling discomfort. Has the session been going on for a whil·le? If its not part of the session (aka need deprivation) Are they hungry thirsty? Participating in bdsm or bondage doesnt have to be sexual·l either. Maybe your sub is overstimul·lated with the outside worl·ld and needs a dark space and a tight hug. Maybe its security, do they ask for a col·ll·lar outside of pl·lay or maybe for you to put the harness on them under a shirt. . . Not everything is for pail·ling just remember that. #suggestive #nsfw #kinktal·lk #sinday #kinkPSA
"= hmmmm. informative. not that i did not know most of this, but there are certain powerful trolls with an eye for this kind of thing, that would never think of half of this. after all, consideration is not in the schoolfeeding, nor a trait valued in adulthood, aha, but good to know there is a degree of trustworthiness, which is needed if there is an objective power dynamic. ="