¶ CAN I B3 R3AL FOR A S3C OR IS THIS A SIT3 WH3R3 YOU G3T SHOT FOR HAVING AN HON3ST, VULN3RABL3 QU3STION §1 THIS IS PROBABLY ON3 OF TH3 WORST PLAC3S TO ASK FOR OPINIONS B3SID3S GRUMBLR BUT. I'M CURIOUS. §2 WHAT TH3 H3LL DO YOU DO WITH VACILLATING QUADS.
Oh gog...thats a tr!cky quest!on but...!'ll keep !t real from one gold!e to another, there !sn't much you can do!!! Just....play !t by ear and try to talk to the troll about !t.
.ride the wavE .and enjoy iT
:33< have fun :33
having someone in your Ashen corner can help with vacillating quadrants. they are there to help bring some balance and keep your head clear when it comes to potential toxic relationships, and I would think helping to keep from vacillating too much could fall under their purview. otherwise, from what I've observed of those with a vacillating set of quads, they simply do their best to ride the waves that come from it. things have a way of settling into a routine, a firm quad, or they simply fizzle out due to imbalance.
¶ S33, THAT'S TH3 THING. WAV3S AR3 3ASY. BUT I DON'T THINK THIS IS A WAV3 WH3N IT'S GON3 ON FOR TH3 PAST IDK HOW MANY SW33PS.
¶ I GU3SS TH3R3'S C3RTAINLY SOM3 KIND OF ROUTIN3 GOING ON NOW. C3RTAINLY NOT UNSTABL3 BUT LIK3. IT'S HARD TO PUT A FING3R ON A D3FINITION FOR WHAT'S GOING ON. Y'KNOW?
yes vacillations by their very nature are difficult to define. I wish you luck dealing with this situation you're in, and hope you can 'ride the wave' of it as best you can.