wWw also i don't think that going past the #quadrants borderzz izz necessarily a bad thing. not my cup of tea though but i don't really care what exact type of relationship trollzz have azz long azz they love each other. or hate i guezz wWw
I understand that it's different for Alternians given the drones and threat of death if concupiscent goals aren't achieved
That said I believe the quadrants are best utilized descriptive rather than prescriptively
My younger cousin's kismesissitude (which might be better described as a kismesituationship) is a relaxed sffair and both parties appear to care deeply for one another despite the foundation being one of conflict
A traditional human relationship flirts with both red quadrants as old Earth humans were expected to get all their affection from one source
And I know plenty of pairs whose pitch and flushed feelings for each other can't be properly described by vascillation
wWw i get ur message but ppl in kismesissitude caring to each other izz like. common sense. in a healthy kismesissitude you would never badly injure or hurt your partner wWw
I typically agree though in more turbulent times a dramatic kismesissitude might become necessary
But you're absolutely right and I would go one step further
A healthy relaxed kismesissitude and an intense moirallegiance are often identical save for the traditional trappings
I try not to squeeze my flings into any one quadrant
Instead I may describe a fling as flushed
Or pitch, with shades of pale, or simply concupiscent
Most are simply concupiscent actually
Actors are sluts