if 7ou feel a spark between 7ou and someone, 7ou should a(t on it. wait too long, and it fades. i know i've felt a spark, no one a(ted on it, and it went awa7 between me and other people. i wonder how man7 people think the same about me.
8=l < I agree with this sentiment
i mean yeah sometimes but sometimes they ain't ready an even though YOUR spark is burnin hot their spark ain't even at the tinder stage yet an when you go to shoot your shot it's a massive letdown ...an then only after you've given up on it they decide to light a match yknow. kinda romantic now that i say it all together actually.
if it's not there, it's not there. i prefer a (lean reje(tion to a drawn out, miserable period of 7earning. rip off the bandaid, 7ou know? the relief of putting down something that wasn't gonna happen
99% a gamblers quit right before they hit the jackpot. an i love yearning, makes for great material. it's only miserable if you're like, lonely as hell an got no other options or smth maybe. now THAT'D be sad. but like privately yearnin for That One while you're hitchin up with a million other yeses adds a kinda cool melancholy flavor to life. also you get to like.... idk learn the value a patience or seein someone as a friend first or smth yada yada there's probably a boatload a virtues you get outta runnin the long game. people seem to like it better when you lean on the gas slow anyway at least in my experience.