
⦓ ... Is it bad to crush on someone when you're still mourning your dead partner? ⦔ ⦓ Is it bad to want to be in a relationship when you still call your dead partner "my partner" as if she's still alive? Oah...⦔

It's never b★d to desire in of itself, how you ★ct upon these desires is wh★t determines if something's b★d or not. Not to put too fine of ★ point on it, but do you believe yourself ment★lly re★dy to pursue ★nother rel★tionship?

Don't think so.

⦓ ... I don't know. I'm scared that I might never be. I'm a fundamentally broken person... But I still want to love and be loved anyway. So I... I'm not sure. Sometimes I feel like I've grown so much, that I've made so much progress and I've become more stable and mature, and then my mood swings back down again and I just sink like a stone. I don't know. ⦔ ⦓ I think I want to be. But I don't know if that's fair to the people I love. ⦔

⦓ Oah... Thank you... ⦔

I for sure get th★t, ye★h..... You deserve to love ★nd be loved despite wh★t you m★y think sometimes. If there's something I've grown to re★lize, it's th★t you don't get to dict★te how others feel ★bout you. There will be those who will c★re ★bout you even when you try to sl★sh out. ★ll th★t to s★y, I think you should give some serious thought to re★ching out. T★ke it slowly of course, but slow progress is more th★n none.

⦓ Thank you... Truly, thank you. I'm really happy I have people like you in my life now. I'll ... I'll take it slow, but you're right. I shouldn't reject my own happiness on the off-chance that it might cause problems later down the line...⦔

There you go m★n! Best of luck to you.