
i really need to stop falling for lalondes and maryams :/

Might I suggest looking into polyamory?

that sounds nice but im trying to not become candy me :/

I'm fairly certain that would require just not being a homewrecker, a proper discussion on negotiations and boundaries with all involved parties would already put you in a better position based on what I know, although my knowledge on other universes after Sburb is very...not very existent unless I am in active communication with someone from those universes, so I could be wrong. I also may have a bias.

well i also dont wanna end up like meat me because shes so driven by her heat shes hardly a person :( #nsfw

These versions of you sound like bad fanfiction. That said I have my doubts you have to worry about being like either one given you already have the awareness not to mimic their mistakes.

if i dont become one my universe and everyone i love and care about disappears.... im just using the time i have left to figure out which future is better for my friends.... :(

... I'm sorry.