ANY TIPS FoR DEALING WITH BRoTHERS THAT TEAR DoWN YoUR ENTIRE RooM FoR No REASoN EVERY SINGLE TIME?
establish clear rUles, and conseqUences for breaking them. it's tempting to try reason, bUt i'm afraid sometimes yoU mUst speak softly and carry a big stick. does he respect the overarching rUles? hasn't shared his name, for example?
HE RESPECTS BoUNDARIES AND AGREEMENTS, LIKE SHARING oUR NAMES! BUT WHENEVER IT CoMES To ME CREATING SoMETHING NEW IN MY SIDE oF THE RooM, HE DESTRoYS IT THE MoMENT HE TAKES oVER! IT'S MADDENING! AND I DoN'T KNoW HoW I CoULD PUNISH HIM FoR IT, oR IF I SHoULD!
yes, yoU shoUld, i'm afraid. yoU may also have to make a concession of yoUr own to get him to agree to yoUr terms!
BUT WHAT CoULD I LET Go!? I'VE BEEN TRYING To LET HIS SIDE oF THE RooM BE, EVEN IF IT'S DIRTY AND AN EYESoRE! I CAN'T THINK oF ANYTHING ELSE!