
#aspe(ttalk 2/12 - blood there’s a number of sa7ing about blood. in the blood. blood brothers. bad blood. blood is thi(ker than water. what these shamelessl7 (herr7 pi(ked sa7ings all have in (ommon is that the7 relate to 7ou and other people. and, similarl7, the aspe(t blood is about 7our relationships with others. some of 7ou immediatel7 thought about 7our partners, didn’t 7ou, reading that? the rush of affe(tion 7ou have for them. well, stop it. those feelings aren’t part of blood b7 itself. feelings fall under the domain of heart (whi(h is gonna be the last one, in (ase an7one was wondering about m7 interpretation of m7 personal aspe(t). and se(ond, relationships (over far, far more than 7our romanti( partners. so, 7ou strip the feelings from a relationship, and what do 7ou have left? the obligation. the responsibilit7. a relationship doesn’t survive on emotion alone! if 7ou love someone and don’t do an7thing with it, 7ou’re just pining from a distan(e. a relationship requires being there. 7our a(tual a(tions being affe(ted b7 their presen(e. a distortion to 7our a(tual life. getting 7ourself up to go (hallenge 7our kismesis even if 7ou’re tired. not going to see the movie 7ou wanted to be(ause 7our friend is hanging out. pulling 7ourself out of 7our (upe to go tend to 7our s(reaming neighbor. blood demands 7ou do the work. even if it’s a bad idea, even. 7ou and that shithead on (hittr 7ou’re arguing with have a relationship, and to do things the blood wa7 would be to keep engaging with them even if it benefits neither of 7ou. some of 7ou might be skepti(al of m7 anal7sis at this point. “n7rita, 7ou sex7 goddess, take me now,” 7ou sa7, “but before 7ou do, 7ou’re making it sound like relationships are things that hold 7ou ba(k!” to whi(h i repl7 - the7 are! blood is one of the five destru(tive aspe(ts, and to be in a relationship is to be bound. but perhaps another word for bound is “an(hored”. and the right relationship is worth a little less freedom, bindings that pull 7ou up rather than keep 7ou down.
