⋆♤˚⟡˖ "Someone Has Pale Feelings For Me.. But I Don't Like Them Like That. They're A Good Friend! We Spend Quite A Bit Of Time Together Because We Have A Quad With The Same Guy- I'm Not Worried About The State Of Any Of That Because We're All Mature And Whatever. It's Just That I'm Pale For Someone Else- We're Not Official Yet So I Haven't Said Anything But We're Obviously Getting There. What.. What Do??" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ ~ This Question Has Been Edited To Protect The Identity Of The User. #advice Oh What A Doozy. Do They Know You Know? If So Then This Is Very Awkward.. If Not.. Are You Sure They Feel #pale For You? You May Be Picking Up On Feelings That Are Not Actually There! If You Are Picking Up On Feelings That *are* There, Then I Give You My Deepest Sympathies. If You Have No Confirmation, Then I Would Let It Be. Wait Until They Come To You To Talk About It And Continue As Normal. Sometimes #denial Is Okay! If You're Sure They Do, Then I Would Reach Out To Them First! Just Straight Up Tell Them What's Going On, That You've Noticed, And That While You Really Appreciate Them As A Friend You're Actually Already In It With Someone Else. Just Tell Them What You've Submitted Here! Just Be Gentle About It. turning Down A Potential #moirail Is Always So Heart Breaking In My Opinion Because They Only Want What Is Best For You, Which Makes It Feel Worse Than A Potential #matesprit Or #kismesis Situation. Just Keep It Soft And You Should Be All Good! ♦ #quadrantconundrums ♦