⋆♤˚⟡˖ "My Kismesis Hasn't Been Sending Me The Same Kind Of Hate They've Usually Been Giving And I'm Starting To Get Worried That I'm Not Good Enough For Them Anymore? We Used To Be Really Good With Jumping Each Other In The Street But Recently I've Noticed They're Not Scratching Me As Deep And Their Insults Have Gotten... Really Mediocre Compared To What We're Used To And It's Messing With Me. What Should I Do?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice #suggestive? Okay, First Things First You Need To Not Panic. A Lack Of Black Affection Does Not Necessarily Mean Feelings Have Changed! Once You Have Calmed Down, Ask Yourself These Questions; ~ Have They Been Working More Than Usual? Are They More Tired? Does Their Lack Of Interest Branch Out To Other #quadrants And Even Hobbies? - If Yes To Any Of These, Or A Combination, Then This Is An Energy Problem. It May Be Time To Contact Their #pale Or #flushed Alliances To Make Sure They Are Getting The Rest And Care They Need. If They Have Neither, Friends Or Even Yourself Will Have To Take On This Role. Do Not Worry, Part Of A Healthy Pitch Relationship Is Making Sure Your Kismesis Is Fully Fighting Fit! ~ Is This Solely Directed At You? If Yes, Have You Done Something Recently That May Have Changed Their Behaviour? It Could Be Pushing The Caliginous Musings Too Far Or Maybe Your Own Touches Were Too Soft? - Talk To Them. I Know It Sounds Soft But Please, Talk To Them. Ask Them; "did I Push Something Too Far?" Or "did Something Happen Recently Between Us?". No Matter The Answer, You Need To Know Where Things Stand. ~ If The Answer To The Above Is That You Or They Have Done Something Wrong, Or That A Mistake Was Made, Just Apologise. Take Accountability If It Was You, And Acceptance If It Was Them, Talk About How To Avoid It And Move On. Forgive But Don't Forget! ~ If The Answer To The Above Is That Feelings Are Shifted, Then That Is A New Conversation You Need To Have. If They Are Now #red Or If The #pitch Feelings Have Faded.. You Need To Figure That Out Together. above All, Remember You Are Allowed To Be Tender With Your Kismesis. They Are Your Rival, They Are There To Push You To Be Better, And You To Do The Same For Them. Stepping On Them When They Are Down Pulls You Both Back And Stunts The Growth Of Both Of You. You Cannot Cause Wounds If You Are Not Willing To Wrap Them. ♠ ️#quadrantconundrums ♠ ️
