⋆♤˚⟡˖ "i Can't Tell If I Have A Crush On This.. Jadeblood I Know. It Feels Like Possibly Too Soon As My Quardants Always Fail And It's Likely My Fault. I Can't Tell If He Likes Me Back. I Think He's Handsome And I Enjoy His Voice. It's Really Calming And I Can't Tell If It's Just Me Being An Idiot Or It's Pale Or Is It Flush Or If It Is Anything Of The Sort. It Feels Too Soon. I Don't Want To Hurt Him And It Feels Like I Always Hurt People I Love And I Dont Mean To- I Love Him Enough To Try To Be Pleasant To Be Around- I Mean I Always Fall In Love With People Easily No Matter If I'm In An Quardant And I Dont Know Why." ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice We Greatly Apologise For The Delay, But We Hope We Can Still Be Of Assistance. If Not, Then We Hope This May Help Someone Else With A Similar Issue. First Things First It's Okay To Be Confused. Feelings Can Be Daunting And We Are Never Really Taught As Young Ones How To Deal With Them. Not Knowing If You Have A Crush Or If These Feelings Are Platonic Is Very Difficult To Grapple With! There Are A Couple Things To Consider Here: ~ Sit On Your Feelings And Think For A Moment. Would You Like To Kiss And Cuddle And Be Close With This Person? If Things Stayed Platonic That Would Be Okay Or Di You Wish You Could Be Closer? That Will Tell You If These Feelings Are A Crush Or Simply A Very Close Non-quadrant Relationship. ~ For #red Or #pale, These #quadrants Can Intermingle A Lot For A Lot Of People. There Are #moirails That Will Do Traditionally Flushed Things With Each Other, And #matesprits Who's Relationship Is Based On The Foundation Of Pale Trust. The Only Way To Really Separate These Things Is.. Are Your Feelings More Protective Or Possessive? Is This Someone You Would Stand In Front Of A Drone For, Or Are They Someone You Would Pull From The Hands Of Another For Your Own Gratification (or Even The Wish For Them To Pull You From Another). Protection Is #conciliatory, Possession Is #concupiscent. As For These Other Feelings.. They Seem To Contain A Lot Of Self Loathing And This Idea That You Are Somehow Cursed Or Causing Your Own Downfall. While There Might Be Some Self Destructive Tendencies There, We Can't Comment On That As We Don't Know You Very Well. Have Hope! A String Of Bad Luck Does Not Mean You Are Unlucky Forever! Just Learn To Communicate With Your Partners And Should This Thought Spiral Continue, Please Contact A Licenced Pan Professional. ♥ #quadrantconundrums ♦