
Any tr⚣lls ⚣r any⚣ne else that has experienced ⚣r is experiencing a black r⚣mance, what feelings ⚣ther than hate ⚣r disliked⚣ y⚣u have in these relati⚣nships usually? D⚣ y⚣u feel things like regret, fear, jeal⚣usy, etc??
varies dbeqpendbent on the qpartner honestlly my llast one was just hate andb qpersonall vendbetta to some dbegree dbut not against him sqpecificalllly its just a wholle can of worms we sqpllit over some dbifferences that we coulldbnt meet eye to eye on though so llive andb llearn or whatever some qpeoqplle just dbont get it
DEFINITELY NORMAL TO FEEL SOME JEALOUSY AND FEAR, AND I DUNNO ABOUT REGRET, BUT I WOULDN'T BE SURPRISED IF THERE COULD BE A BIT OF THAT. IT'S NORMAL TO GET A BIT POSSESSIVE OF EACH OTHER, TO SCARE THE OTHER A BIT HERE AND THERE--KEEPS THINGS EXCITING.

y໑u als໑ feel th໑se thⓘngs ⓘn a flushed relatⓘ໑nshⓘp ⓘts just there ⓘts framed as always a bad thⓘng whⓘch eh whatever ⓘ d໑nt really thⓘnk s໑ bⓘt the maⓘn dⓘfference between them ⓘn a flushed/paⓘl quadrant ⓘs ⓘf the hate regret and fear are pr໑ductⓘve f໑r b໑th partⓘes then ⓘts a pⓘtch ⓘnclⓘned relatⓘ໑nshⓘp ⓘf ⓘts n໑t then ⓘts a t໑><ⓘc pⓘtch ໑r theⓘr sab໑tagⓘng a paⓘl/flushed quadrant n໑t that hard t໑ understand

Im s⚣rry the last ⚣ne didnt w⚣rk ⚣ut :( thank y⚣u f⚣r sharing th⚣ugh! I didnt think ab⚣ut vendettas ⚣r revenge being a part ⚣f it but it makes sense!

I th⚣ught s⚣! Questi⚣n, d⚣es the jeal⚣usy ⚣nly surr⚣und ⚣ther blackr⚣m candidates? Or can it be any⚣ne just ar⚣und them ⚣r in ⚣ther quadrants?
I FIND THAT JEALOUSY TENDS TO CROP UP ESPECIALLY WHEN IT'S OTHER POSSIBLE BLACKROM CANDIDATES, MOSTLY COS YOU WANT THEM IN THAT SORTA WAY AND NOT IN THE OTHER QUADRANT WAY. IF YOU'RE GETTIN' JEALOUS OF JUST ANYONE TAKIN UP THEIR TIME, YOU MIGHT BE VACILLATIN'

Interesting! That's a g⚣⚣d way t⚣ percieve it I think. Ultimately all quadrants are supp⚣sed t⚣ serve a purp⚣se t⚣ help the pe⚣ple in that quadrant (⚣r at least That's what I gather). S⚣ any feelings that acc⚣mplish that are m⚣re n⚣rmal

𝓣𝓸 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓬𝓾𝓻𝓲𝓸𝓾𝓼 𝓖𝓵𝓪𝓿𝓮, 𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓶𝓸𝓼𝓽 𝓲𝓶𝓹𝓸𝓻𝓽𝓪𝓷𝓽 𝓽𝓱𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓽𝓸 𝓾𝓷𝓭𝓮𝓻𝓼𝓽𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓪𝓫𝓸𝓾𝓽 𝓹𝓲𝓽𝓬𝓱 𝓻𝓸𝓶𝓪𝓷𝓬𝓮 𝓲𝓼 𝓽𝓱𝓪𝓽 𝓲𝓽 𝓲𝓼, 𝓯𝓲𝓻𝓼𝓽 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓯𝓸𝓻𝓮𝓶𝓸𝓼𝓽, 𝓪 𝓻𝓲𝓿𝓪𝓵𝓻𝔂. 𝓣𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮 𝓲𝓼 𝓱𝓪𝓽𝓻𝓮𝓭, 𝔂𝓮𝓼. 𝓣𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮 𝓲𝓼 𝓭𝓲𝓼𝓭𝓪𝓲𝓷. 𝓣𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮 𝓲𝓼 𝓪 𝓭𝓮𝓮𝓹-𝓼𝓮𝓪𝓽𝓮𝓭 𝓵𝓸𝓪𝓽𝓱𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓽𝓱𝓪𝓽 𝓯𝓮𝓮𝓵𝓼 𝓪𝓼 𝓽𝓱𝓸𝓾𝓰𝓱 𝓫𝓵𝓪𝓬𝓴 𝓫𝓲𝓵𝓮 𝓻𝓲𝓼𝓮𝓼 𝓽𝓸 𝔂𝓸𝓾𝓻 𝓵𝓲𝓹𝓼 𝓾𝓹𝓸𝓷 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓶𝓮𝓻𝓮 𝓽𝓱𝓸𝓾𝓰𝓱𝓽 𝓸𝓯 𝔂𝓸𝓾𝓻 𝓸𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓻 𝓱𝓪𝓵𝓯. 𝓑𝓾𝓽 𝓪𝓽 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓼𝓪𝓶𝓮 𝓽𝓲𝓶𝓮, 𝓲𝓽 𝓲𝓼 𝓼𝓽𝓲𝓵𝓵 𝓪 𝓻𝓲𝓿𝓪𝓵𝓻𝔂. 𝓘𝓽 𝓲𝓼 𝓷𝓸𝓽 𝓪𝓫𝓸𝓾𝓽 𝓮𝓵𝓲𝓶𝓲𝓷𝓪𝓽𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝔂𝓸𝓾𝓻 𝓫𝓮𝓵𝓸𝓪𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓭, 𝓷𝓸𝓻 𝓳𝓾𝓼𝓽 𝓪𝓫𝓸𝓾𝓽 𝓮𝓷𝓰𝓪𝓰𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓲𝓷 𝓹𝓪𝓼𝓼𝓲𝓸𝓷𝓼 𝓸𝓯 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓯𝓵𝓮𝓼𝓱 𝔀𝓱𝓲𝓵𝓮 𝓼𝓬𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓶𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓮𝔁𝓹𝓵𝓮𝓽𝓲𝓿𝓮𝓼; 𝓲𝓽 𝓲𝓼 𝓪𝓫𝓸𝓾𝓽 𝓼𝓾𝓻𝓹𝓪𝓼𝓼𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓶. 𝓟𝓻𝓸𝓿𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓪𝓻𝓮 𝔀𝓸𝓻𝓽𝓱𝔂 𝓸𝓯 𝓫𝓮𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓲𝓻 𝓪𝓻𝓬𝓱𝓮𝓷𝓮𝓶𝔂, 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓹𝓾𝓼𝓱𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓶 𝓽𝓸 𝓭𝓸 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓼𝓪𝓶𝓮. 𝓣𝓱𝓲𝓼 𝓲𝓼 𝓸𝓷𝓵𝔂 𝓹𝓸𝓼𝓼𝓲𝓫𝓵𝓮 𝔀𝓲𝓽𝓱 𝓪 𝓫𝓮𝓰𝓻𝓾𝓭𝓰𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓻𝓮𝓼𝓹𝓮𝓬𝓽, 𝓲𝓯 𝓷𝓸𝓽 𝓪𝓭𝓶𝓲𝓻𝓪𝓽𝓲𝓸𝓷. ⨁𝓷𝓵𝔂 𝓹𝓸𝓼𝓼𝓲𝓫𝓵𝓮 𝔀𝓲𝓽𝓱 𝓪 𝓫𝓾𝓻𝓷𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓹𝓪𝓼𝓼𝓲𝓸𝓷, 𝓪𝓼 𝓲𝓭𝓵𝓮 𝓱𝓪𝓽𝓻𝓮𝓭 𝓯𝓲𝔃𝔃𝓵𝓮𝓼 𝓲𝓷𝓽𝓸 𝓹𝓮𝓽𝓽𝔂 𝓰𝓻𝓲𝓮𝓿𝓪𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓼 𝓼𝔀𝓲𝓯𝓽𝓵𝔂. 𝓘𝓽'𝓼 𝓮𝔁𝓱𝓲𝓵𝓪𝓻𝓪𝓽𝓲𝓸𝓷 𝓪𝓽 𝓴𝓷𝓸𝔀𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓱𝓪𝓿𝓮 𝓫𝓮𝓼𝓽𝓮𝓭 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓶. 𝓘𝓽'𝓼 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓻𝓪𝓰𝓮 𝓪𝓽 𝓫𝓮𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓫𝓮𝓼𝓽𝓮𝓭, 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓽𝓱𝓻𝓲𝓵𝓵 𝓪𝓽 𝓴𝓷𝓸𝔀𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓷𝓸𝔀 𝓱𝓪𝓿𝓮 𝓽𝓸 𝓼𝓮𝓽𝓽𝓵𝓮 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓼𝓬𝓸𝓻𝓮. 𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓿𝓲𝓼𝓬𝓮𝓻𝓪𝓵 𝓹𝓵𝓮𝓪𝓼𝓾𝓻𝓮 𝓸𝓯 𝓬𝓸𝓷𝓯𝓵𝓲𝓬𝓽, 𝓫𝓮 𝓲𝓽 𝓹𝓱𝔂𝓼𝓲𝓬𝓪𝓵 𝓸𝓻 𝓮𝓶𝓸𝓽𝓲𝓸𝓷𝓪𝓵 𝓸𝓻 𝓫𝓸𝓽𝓱. 𝓐𝓷𝓭, 𝓲𝓽 𝓶𝓾𝓼𝓽 𝓫𝓮 𝓼𝓪𝓲𝓭, 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓼𝓪𝓽𝓲𝓼𝓯𝓪𝓬𝓽𝓲𝓸𝓷 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓼𝓶𝓾𝓰𝓷𝓮𝓼𝓼 𝓸𝓯 𝓼𝓾𝓬𝓬𝓮𝓼𝓼𝓯𝓾𝓵𝓵𝔂 '𝓻𝓪𝓰𝓮𝓫𝓪𝓲𝓽𝓲𝓷𝓰'. 𝓡𝓮𝓵𝓮𝓿𝓪𝓷𝓽 𝓽𝓪𝓰𝓼: #𝓻𝓸𝓶𝓪𝓷𝓬𝓮 #𝓷𝓼𝓯𝔀 #𝓿𝓲𝓸𝓵𝓮𝓷𝓬𝓮 - 𝓨𝓸𝓾𝓻𝓼 𝓲𝓷𝓯𝓸𝓻𝓶𝓪𝓽𝓲𝓿𝓮𝓵𝔂, 𝓚𝓪𝔃𝓲𝓮𝓵 𝓒𝓱𝓲𝓽𝓪𝓵

W⚣ah that was really el⚣quently put!! I think I was t⚣tally missing the part ⚣n the underlying respect and admirati⚣n. It's r⚣mantic that even with the hatred and rivalry there is a bl⚣ss⚣m ⚣f self impr⚣vement that they drive ⚣ut ⚣f each ⚣ther!! Thank y⚣u f⚣r kn⚣wledge!

