Anonymous querist: "Being that you are a human, it seems very interesting to see you taking up a Kismesis. How did you know it was right for you?" An interesting question. I suppose if we were to delve into the intricacies of my relationship to the concept of Kismesissitude in particular, I file it under a form of BDSM. There's passion, a respect for each other, a commitment, rules and boundaries, just as much as a more standard 'human' relationship dynamic. It just leans more towards a rivalry. Think enemies to lovers, except they never stop being enemies. Now, personally, I derive great pleasure from many vices, pain being one of them. To have someone to not only willing to be at my mercy, but also able to inflict pain onto me without all the qualms and concerns a loving partner may have, it is an easy thing. I have never been shy about being a self-proclaimed hedonist, a sadomasochist, and a lover of taboo. #BDSM #nsfw #nsfwe in case the topic is further expanded upon. https://roanlalondeama.straw.page/