Damara always has such a unique way o+f paying co+mpliments. Slightly o+bjectifying, but sincere, and earnest to+ a fault.
yet vwhen *i* sincerely and earnestly objectify vwomen...
... She do+es it in a way that's still friendly, and as a means o+f putting up a pro+tective shell. Yo+u do+ it specifically to+ try and get laid. There is a difference, and tho+ugh it might lo+o+k the same, the behavio+r behind the wo+rds makes it two+ vastly different experiences.
hey maybe i havwe a hard shell around my soft and sensitiwve center that maybe no ones bothered to try searching for
O+thers did try. Yo+u still weapo+nized their co+ncern fo+r yo+u, and tried to+ take advantage o+f their go+o+d will, because yo+u felt that yo+u were o+wed so+mething yo+u were no+t. And yo+ur wo+rds co+ntinue to+ give the impressio+n that if I were to+ serio+usly try and o+ffer yo+u any so+rt o+f care, yo+u wo+uld push fo+r mo+re and mo+re and mo+re. So+ no+.
so im the bad guy for wvanting help? or for not knowving howv to accept it? sheesh, sounds like a classic case of vwictimblaming to me. ah wvell, you cant help it i guess...
If yo+u serio+usly want o+thers to+ extend a hand to+ yo+u, yo+u still need to+ put in the wo+rk, yo+urself. If yo+ kno+w yo+u have tro+uble accepting help fo+r what it is, then wo+rk o+n that, and actually make so+me changes. If yo+u do+n't change, then no+thing aro+und yo+u will. And sto+p using therapy language to+ justify yo+ur unhealthy reactio+ns to+ things, Cro+nus. Be better than that.
sounds like a self-perpetuating cycle to me toots. hovw am i supposed to take that first step wvithout getting help first? but nah, its fine, its fine, i get it. im a man, a highblood man evwen, so its a sin for me to showv emotions. this is exactly the kinda thing vwe discuss in the #beforusboys podcast yknowv