:33 < this is not a yearning pawst purr se :33 < this is me asking for genuine advice beclaws i suck at this :33 < what's the best way to get a date :33 < not a one nighter but m33t people who could be potential long term partners :33 < bars are frankly the shittiest place to do that at but it's the only thing i can think of :33 < like yeah go out in the community but /where/ my bros :33 < i'm already in a biker club and i'm already in a fighting club and i also hang out with mechanics so like :33 < i do do social activities :33 < though with my back furcked up i haven't b33n fighting :33 < no one's really caught my eye in those circles though :33 < should i start frequenting coff33 shops or what
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:33 < hm! that's true :33 < i'll have to k33p a better eye out :33 < thanks for the advice zabrak
Fa2ho bigg dawg.
( αβΎΜκ βΎΜα); < Takes an awfully sturdy sort of soul to admit yer lookin' fer insights. Ain't no shame in that, and I commend ya for yer bravery... ( αβκβα) < Right as rain, bars ain't the place. Great way to do random chance encounters and sorta memorable run ins...but most of the folks that flock to there are chasing cheap thrills, quick highs, and instant gratification. Not the lasting sort. Think short rest over long rest. You want to refill your spell slots and get charmed. ( αβΎΜκ βΎΜα); < Coffee shops ain't a bad prospect. Most podunk places where there's frequent foot traffic will knock your socks off in the types 'o fantastic folk gathered. Community gardens, local cull or be slammed music jams, craft fairs where folks sell homemade soaps and hornicutter craft. Hell, even trivia nights at the local pub, not the same as a bar proper per se, more sociable-like. β¦οΈ( αβΎΜκ βΎΜα); < If yer lookin' fer pale pals, all the above are suitable. π₯( αβκβα) < If yer interests are a wee teensie bit more animosity-driven...I suggest checking out the darker underbellies of society's rotting carcass. Fight clubs, long DMV lines, grocerscree lines, anywhere where tensions run high, and voices raise higher. If yer lookin' to wax black, start by identifying what annoys you the most, and what you could really see yourself meaningfully hating in a person. α΄ΰ΄¦ΰ΅ΰ΄¦πΉ(α΄αακαα)α΄< And if it's love yer after... ( αβΎΜκ βΎΜα); < Just let it happen. ( αβκβα) < This is gonna sound crazy...but personal ads, online dating, apps, none 'o those are bound t'give you what you need t'know about a person for a lasting pity, a pithy attraction, a warm and unending bond, adhesive, sticky, 'n sappy sweet. Meet people naturally. Consider their attributes. Ruminate over their stat block. And before you know it...it'll happen. Don't go into things tryna make the person suit the relationship. Find the relationship that suits the person. Eventually. It'll be the one that fits it best. Rather than tryna make a person best fit.
:33 < hey this is actually exactly what i was looking for thank you :33 < this is all really solid advice :33 < gonna have to look around my local area more and look up events and s33 what i can s33 :33 < walking's getting tricky lately so i hope crutches aren't a turn off
( αβΎΜκ βΎΜα); < Not to anyone worth caring about, they're not a turn off, no. ( αβκβα) < If anything, it encourages vulnerability. Breaks down the tougher-than-the-nails-that-hold-them-up exterior walls... ( αβκβα) < Which gives grounds for cooperation, coordination, communication...KEYSTONES for a good relationship foundation!!! ( αβΎΜκ βΎΜα); < I know for a fact anybody'd be lucky t'have someone like that t'look after...yer Challenge Rating ain't as high as you think!!!! ( αβκβα) < Rootin' for ya!!!!!!!!!!
:33 < prrr thank you