I ałways grøw curiøus when I see trøłłs ør even humans pøsting øn here abøut høw they’re the caretakers øf grubs, and it’s ałł I can dø nøt tø gø øntø their pøsts and inquire abøut the circumstances that łead tø that arrangement. I knøw peøpłe tend tø øvershare ønłine but I stiłł fear my curiøsity łeading me tø crøss a persønał bøundary.
I CARE FOR SSEVERA/ MECHANICA/ DRAGONSS BUT I AGREE WITH YOU >8/ I HAVE NO IDEA HOW THEY ARE THE PRIMARY CARETAKERSS OF GRUBSS
curious about the parents, but not about how the grubs turn out huh?
I’m nøt quite sure where yøu gøt that impressiøn? Tø me it søunds møre antagønistic tø ask upfrønt the detaiłs øf their grub’s heałth and devełøpment; as thøugh I’m casting døubt øn the guardian’s abiłities tø prøvide. I ałsø knøw that regardłess øf høw they answer I cannøt swøøp in and dø anything abøut it før severał reasøns, nør can I necessariły føresee the øutcøme øf their wørk. I find it møre prøductive tø ask høw they came tø be in such a (før my timełine) uncømmøn pøsitiøn and, if they’re wiłłing tø share, what experiences they’ve had that might differ frøm my øwn. Certainły if sømeøne needs hełp rearing a grub I can be øf service, but I døn’t want tø seem presumptuøus in that øffer, sø I keep it in reserve. Additiønałły, they may have had øthers act cømbativeły tøward them før what they’re døing since it’s far frøm traditiønał– I seek tø avøid cøming øff that way as wełł, hence I why I typicałły keep tø mysełf.
i'm just sayin people always wanna hear from the parents about how hard it is, how they got roped into havin a kid, but no one ever wants to hear from the kids ykwim? people always got these big emotional stories about how brave, how fuckin against the grain they are raisin a kid themselves, all about them them them them tbem. i'm just SAYING maybe when the grub gets old enough maybe it wants to talk about how it was too yknow.
¥øu’re absøłuteły right, and I agree. My øriginał statement wøułd stiłł appły, høwever, as a stranger asking abøut the intricacies øf øne’s yøuth may evøke a simiłar respønse. Additiønałły, it seems there simpły aren’t as many trøłłs whø grew up in this fashiøn øn the site as there seem tø be the caretakers themsełves. Thøugh this may simpły be a case øf thøse users nøt wanting tø make that fact pubłic før whatever persønał reasøn; did yøu happen tø have this sørt øf upbringing, and that’s what inspired yøur cømments?
i'll uhhhhhhhhhhh get back to you on that one chief i'm savin all that dirty laundry for fathers day in a couple weeks you know how it is 🤪🤣🫠✌️ anyway i gotta go i got nothin but respect for the caverns thnx for listenin baby
Thank yøu før yøur fułł respønse (genuineły) and thank yøu før the cørrect but øbjectiveły hiłariøus statement øf “yøu shøułd ałsø ask the kids– nøt me thø”.