how do you experiment in a way that's super subtle and won't make people immediately clock you.
thoughts i'm having while vacuuming my stupid house. argh. i hate vacuuming so boring.
Start by wearing stuff that could pass as gender neutral, but was marketed feminine when you bought it. Like "girl jeans" or wear a sports bra under your shirt. That way you know that you're wearing something even if others don't. If you feel a little euphoria, that's a bonus.
I am the wrong person to ask this too.
i'm just worried people won't like me as much if i'm not a cis guy? i dunno! i don't even fully know if i'm transgender or if it's some other thing! i just worry i'll lose all my appeal if i'm not just a boy. i'm not even fully sure why i feel this way i guess i'm just assuming people will think i'm weird or less cool.