
Am I overthinking this, I've had sex before, a lot so why am I nervous over this one particular time. #nsfw #vagueposting

[|87 :: Performance anx;ety ;s a huge b;tch

Haven't had it in the past, this is the first time. I'm trying to stay sober as to make it an enjoyable experience for her and not just a terrible experience.

sounds like it's not just sex! 7ou got some feelings mixed up into it, reall7 liking 7our partner, and now 7ou're thinking about it

[|87 :: Be;n sober for th;s m;ght be the best course of act;on then. Maybe you are just very flushed for th;s person (or p;tch your quad stats a;nβt my bus;ness you do you)

I'm unsure, she is quite lovely though.

[|87 :: 1βm sure you w;ll do f;ne. Try to regulate, 1 suggest engag;n ;n a calm;n act;v;ty you enjoy s;nce substances are off the table

I just want to make her feel good, it's her first experience and I would like to make sure she has a pleasant experience...

I will see what I can do, thank you.

ahhhh. 7eah. (ommuni(ate and go slow and i'm sure ever7thing will go great!

Hopefully, I'm trying to be as delicate as I can about this.