pervwerse incentivwe: the bane of doms evweryvwhere. the idea is, you dole out punishment to curb behavwior you dont vwanna see, and givwe revwards to encourage behavwiors you do vwanna see. but vwhen youre dealing vwith a sub? the punishment *is* the revward. you start spanking em vwhen they act naughty, theyre gonna keep being naughty so you keep spanking em. so howv do you make sure punishment is punishment and revward is revward? vwell... its a case by case sorta thing. kind of a cop out, i guess. i guess you gotta mix things up, keep em fresh. newv revwards, newv punishments... denial or a time out or something makes for a good punishment, since evwen if they start going for it, it eats up a lotta their time and not so much of yours. hell, sometimes i threaten to take avway the "punishment" as punishment. its pretty cute seeing howv vworked up some get ovwer that. the point is, vwhen youre training someone or playing vwith em, theres no one size fits all solution. you gotta vwork vwith em, observwe em, and adjust vwhat youre doing as you go. thats howv you get the babes coming back for more. #nsfwv #bdsm #sadomaso #justvwatchedsecretary #feelingthings #pervwerseincentivwe #greatdoubleentendre #illkillyourvwiperalright
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