⒊ signs YOU are in ♠ ?! (PITCH EDITION!) So glad you stuck around (or stumbled ↑on this on the front page!) Let’s 🗨 about the world of kismeses: If you asked me, the award for the most misunderstood type of romance has to go to pitch’s rugged grubball field that is also on fire and is somehow waterlogged in strifeltaneity, though that isn’t much to applaud. Yes, even *our* pans want to dilute caliginous feelings into a form of paradoxical flushred rivalry since that's easier to grapple with, and maybe it does seem that way at first glance. In that same bound-to-burst vein, we require kismessitudes to retain our posterity’s fiercely unyielding nature, but emotionally, it goes far deeper than that. I’ll get into it shortly. For now, here are my tricks to see if your feelings for that certain somebody are as black as a brooder’s #broken soul: ⒈ YOU FEEL CONSTANTLY INFURIATED AROUND THEM 💢 OK, *maybe* this one goes without saying, but when you are around them, you find yourself more ready to tussle (verbally or physically), even more than at the perspiring concavedweller tugging at your armsleeves. It’s a kind of drive that surges through your body and asks for you to punch that someone’s [HONK]-eating grin. ⒉ IT SEEMS LIKE YOU KNOW ALL THEIR FLAWS... ✕ ✕ ✕ Every conversation seems to replay in your head, each more bothersome than the last. They chew too loud, they can hardly put ↑ a fight, miracles above, do they know how ST↑ID they sound? You nitpick each and every little ick and it makes your blood boil. ⒊ YOU ARE DRIVEN TO BECOME BETTER! You’re given a place where you can be furious, and someone can be furious at you in return. The point is that you have someone (⒈) to push you further, whether that is to be furthest thing from the other person, or to understand your own flaws. Let's be honest, anyone who isn’t a troll might look at you like your fly is ↓ and your bulge is at the ready to spew a load of mind-melting fiend[HONK]——”what do you mean arch-rivalries count as romance?!” But the principal pro to pitching pitch feelings is the fact it is delivered from a place of catharsis. You aren't going to get your flaws handed to you on a silver platter; there are many of us who'll never surmount the reality of being an imperfect person. It isn't only about hating and being hated——it's about getting the motivation to change. At moments where not even *you* can carry yourself, who will be there to push you back ↑? What if you ended ↑ like them? It is a reason to move forward. And it is a reason to be angry. Because in the end, kismesissitude is a reason to become your best self. Thank you ⒌ tons for reading, and I hope this tips chit has helped you understand your feelings for that somebody a little better. Feel free to drop a question in DMs or in the replies and I'll do my best to vend advice! B:o) I'm rooting for you! - Gander Grimzl
