Anonymous querist: "you are very interesting to me when did you learn that you were transgender i am not familiar with the intricacies of transition because of reasons that i will not share to maintain anonymity but i am curious because i do not know a lot about having a body so the character limit reached" What a shame that the character limit was reached. However I will answer what has been sent. My experience is that of my own and does not reflect the lived experiences of others. As a child, I simply did not understand what the differences truly were between genders at all, I gravitated quite naturally to activities and traits that seem to be attributed to both categories. Once I started developing secondary sex characteristics during pubescence, that is when I grew disillusioned with the reflection in the mirror. Through a great many years of research throughout my teenhood, I applied what I had learned to myself, and realised that I was always a man, and that I would prefer to be perceived as such in society. My styling and presentation as gender non-conforming simply is an aesthetically pleasing challenge to maintain, and is a near tradition in many 'goth' spaces that men do appear rather androgynous. I like the style. Should you wish to engage further, please do seek out refuge in my dm's, or you are more than welcome to use the #ama link again below. https://roanlalondeama.straw.page/ #transgender #QnA #ama
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I feel seen Cultivating a precise androgyny is an engaging challenge is it not Frustrating sometimes But worth it Usually
Not to mention keeping that same androgyny as your body changes
If your questions are of a more general or studious nature, you can input them into this link here: https://roanlalondeama.straw.page/ However, if they are of a more personal nature, my dm's are open to you always.
It is such fun to wear a suit and have stubble one day, and shave to wear makeup the next. It is also nice to wear makeup in a suit with stubble, sometimes.
This has been the balancing act for quite some time for me.
You seem to play with it a bit more than me I have voluntarily worn dresses before but the stipulation is that I must style my stubble lile a drag king or else i will feel either disheveled or feminine
Drag Kings, be still my beating heart.
u hav such a way of puttin into words som of the feelings that iv often experienced myself, n 4 that im forever grateful. well and for seein ur beautiful purple text on my screen!
I find solace and comfort within your understanding, it soothes me deeply. Your pretty in pink prose is always and forever welcomed, and wanted, here.