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Vibes, mostly. Make them rancid. Ensure that you go out of your way to instigate, cause trouble, create conflict that will eventually build someone up stronger. A perfect example of a well-known and documented Blackrom phenomenon comes from Cartoon Network's hit tv show, Chowder. Moong Dal and Endive are not romantically involved. But they are inseparable. They are not involved in one another's successes. But they know more about one another than any surface level observation might yield. When Moong Dal calls Endive a 'mad cow', or emphasizes her sheer girth as being on par with that of a monstrosity or sky-eclipsing woman, which he pronounces with the full-chested emphasis of a slur despite the innocuousness of the word, it is his deep-seeded black lust for her. He desires to see and do harm to her, just as she wishes to squash him like an irreverent bug who scuttled out of place. Find someone pathetic, annoying, and begin instilling a sense of looming dread and you can hate-have just about anyone willing that you want.
In a cosmic and somewhat roundabout sort of way, I learned from the best.