iT SEEMS TO ME, tO BE A STRANGE SET OF PRIORITIES TO, bE ACTIVELY ATTEMPTING TO BE A JERK, bUT THEN GETT1NG MAD WHEN, pEOPLE THINK YOU ARE A JERK, iN WAYS YOU PERHAPS, dID NOT INTEND BUT ARE STILL, dOING, oR, tO GET UPSET WHEN YOU ARE, bEING A JERK, aS IS YOUR STATED GOAL, aND THEN OTHER PEOPLE, aRE L1KE, hEY, qUIT BEING A JERK, jERK, iT'S JUST,,, tHERE IS TH1S ENTIRE CULTURE i THINK, oF BEING PERFORMATIVELY MEAN, tHEN CALLING PEOPLE, eASILY OFFENDED OR SOMETHING, bUT i THINK THAT, iF YOU WERE FLICKING SOMEONE, oVER AND OVER, iN REAL LIFE, tHEN GOT INDIGNANT WHEN THEY TELL YOU, tO STOP, oR FLICK YOU BACK,,, iT IS JUST, wIGGLERISH BEHAVIOR, vERY SELF-CENTERED AND, sOLIPSISTIC, iF YOU WILL, aND i THINK THE BEST SOLUTION, iF YOU ARE A BULLY, bUT CAN NOT HANDLE, eMOTIONALLY, bE1NG CALLED OUT, aS A BULLY, tHEN, tHE BEST SOLUTION IS TO QUIT BEING, a BULLY, aND, iT IS NOT AS THOUGH, tHAT BEING A BULLY, eXISTS IN A VACUUM ANYWAYS, iF YOU ARE OKAY WITH BEING, cALLED A BULLY, bUT NOT A MISOGYNISTIC OR, hOMOPHOBE OR TRANSPHOBE, oR, rACIST OR ABLEIST, i MEAN,,, a HUGE SWATH OF INSULTS, aRE BASED AROUND, aLL THOSE THINGS, iMPLYING SOMEONE IS LESSER OR, a PART OF ONE OF THESE GROUPS, wHETHER OR NOT THEY ARE REALLY, wHICH IMPLIES THEY ARE LESSER, iN THE EYES OF THE BULLY, lIKE, wE WENT OVER A LOT OF TH1S, sORT OF TH1NG IN MY wOMEN'S sTUDIES COURSES, lIKE FROM WIGGLERHOOD, a GO TO INSULT IS, gIRLY, oR PUSSY, oR A B-WORD, aLL MEANING, wEAK OR SOFT OR COWARDLY OR, eMOTIONAL, aND 1S IT ANY SURPRISE THAT, tHIS CLEARLY STEMS, fROM MISOGYNISTIC IDEALS, tHAT FOR SOMEONE TO BE, "WOMANLY," IS INSULTING, a BAD THING, aND SOME PEOPLE WILL SAY DUMB STUFF, lIKE, cALL YOU THE SEXIST FOR IMPLY1NG, wOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, aND THUS FITTING OF THE INSULTS, aND THAT IS JUST, a RED HERRING ARGUMENT, wE LIVE IN A SOCIETY, wE CAN NOT JUST PRETEND THAT, tHIS STUFF 1SN'T THE BELIEF SYSTEM, hELD BY HUGE SWATHS OF PEOPLE, aND TO DO SO IS DISINGENUOUS, tO A HUGE DEGREE, aND L1KE, iS IT REALLY A BIG DEAL, iF ONE PERSON CALLS SOMEONE, a B-WORD? nOT REALLY, bUT, i LIKE TO THINK OF IT LIKE, pICKING UP LITTER, yES WE NEED, bROADER CHANGE, aT THE TOP, tO SOLVE THE PROBLEM BUT, wHILE SMALL CORRECTIONS ON AN INDIV1DUAL LEVEL, wON'T FIX EVERYTHING, wE CAN LEAVE A SPACE NICER THAN, wE FOUND IT AND, iF A LOT OF US ALL DO THAT, iT CAN MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE, i THINK, aND, sOME PEOPLE WILL PROBABLY GO, tOO LONG, d1DN'T READ ALL THAT, oR, mAJOR YAPPING, oR, wOW, i'M LIVING IN YOUR PAN RENT-FREE, aND L1KE,,, oKAY? gOOD FOR YOU, i AM SHARING MY THOUGHTS ON, tHINGS THAT ARE IMPORTANT TO ME, aND IF YOU CHOOSE NOT TO ENGAGE, wITH THEM OR, tAKE ME HAVING BIG THOUGHTS AS, a SIGN YOU HAVE WON, sOME ARGUMENT THEN, i'M OKAY WITH THAT, i JUST HOPE THAT, mAYBE PEOPLE WILL TH1NK MORE, aBOUT THE GOLDEN RULE AND, aBOUT T.H.I.N.K., bECAUSE, i THINK IF WE ALL, tREATED OTHERS JUST A BIT BETTER THEN, eARTH C OR, wHEREVER YOU PERSONALLY LIVE, cOULD BECOME JUST A LITTLE BIT, bETTER AND, i THINK THAT'S WORTH A TRY, rIGHT?
I think this was very well thought-out and put, Tavros. that kind of behavior from people is the pinnacle of wigglerish behavior and it drives me right out of my pan to see it.
tHANK YOU! i AM NOT REALLY EXPECTING THIS, tO CHANGE ANYTHING i JUST, wANT TO TALK ABOUT, mY THOUGHTS, sOMETIMES,