Gander Grimzl

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GANDER’S GANDER INTO THE FOLKS OF CHITTR PART ⒋⒌ — @bummelBoogie Nyrita. (Just Nyrita!) HEADS (AND PANTS) ↑: though there isn’t anything NECESSARILY NSFW in this FEATURE, we will be Discussing #pailing-plus-coital-psychology (#well-its-more-sociology-here) and #quasiintimate-flushed-romances. Unpunny Jokes, too. If that isn’t your Party of Lusting People, I suggest you use your hands for better things… Like scrolling ↓ to the post beneath mine. I’m sure it’s Good. Great, even. (I hope!) Eyyyy (⒎⒎⒎⒎), what’s ↑ Chittr. We’re back at it with another Digital Panpeep, so let’s get → into it! This one (⒈) is Surely A Doozy. Let’s Take A Gander at Nyrita! (CROWD CHEER!) (CROWD HMM…) (CROWD THINKING; I could make a terrible joke here, but I’ll save it for the rest of the post!) I’d like you to Imagine Chittr as a Bustling Cafe for a second with me: idle chatter in abundance, a coffee for your troubles, a Stage rife with Life Announcements, lyricposts, etcetera. You’ve got your Big Bads on the ←, your Critics on the →, and camaraderie all around you. OK, now imagine Nyrita being a majoregular at this Cafe. She’s a face you just CANNOT MISS. SERIOUSLY. At an outside glance, you fall for the Image she’s constructed for herself: she’s laid-back, casual, flirty, friendly regardless, and has quite a Lot to say about… (well, you’ll just have to See For Yourself). A bringer of FUN AND PLEASURE, she has a prong in hosting the wipely SICK NASTY SUNDAY. She knows her activity and takes Pride in the LIFE (or I guess HEART) she’s BREATHED into the platform. Which is to say, it’s easy to assume that’s all there is to her: Porn Without Plot, as a Wise Collective Archive would paint her as. Uncommonly, a Guide to the Game. (I implore you to check out her LANDWALKING CONTENT, it's quite Interesting!) What mostly sets Nyrita apart from other Chittrers, content aside, is the fact that she actively subverts the SOCIAL PARADIGM. Particularly, she undermines the idea that you’re meant to have one (⒈) partner per Quadrant along with the pressures that accompany it. She encourages you to ♥ WHO you want, WHEN you want, and really enjoy yourself beyond Obligation. Those societal pressures mean nix because they’re intangible to her (those rules ultimately are), and as it stands, she exists on an entirely different plane to Alternia. As a social actor, Nyrita answers to HERSELF ONLY, perhaps her partners to boot, but it falls ↓ to her wants. This is a thing of CONJECTURE, but I believe Nyrita suggestively posts and performs as a form of PATHOLOGICAL ESCAPISM. It’s easier to indulge in those desires than to engage with the nature of her Identity. She, evidently, grapples with the Dread and Stagnancy that comes from what I can assume to be the PRODUCTS OF THE GAME. It’s that Equilibrium that draws her to a life of HEDONISM, aiming for what gratifies her the most over all else. This was likely exacerbated by the Game. Getting Desensitized from SGRUB isn’t anything Out of The Ordinary, especially from a game that expects everything around you to Die before you Win. As an inherent DESTROYER of her aspect (Bard of Heart), it’s only anticipated to assume this mindset of movement and thrill-seeking, if only to ESCAPE FROM HERSELF. With that, you find that her greatest enemy is her APATHY; she harbors more of it than you’d Expect the Certified ♥rlady to. She’s been destroyed and rebuilt so many times that she’s been habituated to a Variety of topics and choices, death and violence included. Though infrequent, Nyrita is very much capable of causing Destruction in her wake, to FLIP ON A DIME from sweet and approachable to a FORCE TO BE RECKONED WITH. When you pry beyond the surface, it’s revealed how much she struggles to get Intimate, to CARE to an extent most people yearn for. It leaves much to be Desired. You find this is most prevalent with her relationships. If you Take a Gander at the Diagram on the NEXT PAGE (Sternberg’s Triangle of ♥, which covers red romances to be exact), you’ll find that her relationships fall between PASSION AND INTIMACY, or FATUOUS ♥. In this context, PASSION is an intense, emotionally charged, and physically magnetic connection defined by deep desire and strong feelings, while COMMITMENT is the capacity to dedicate oneself (⒈self) to a partner. INTIMACY, however, is the connectedness and proximity of a relationship, which may become difficult to achieve in relationships that likely take root in coital pleasures as a REQUISITE. Nyrita is used to the Tommy-rapidfire Lust without emotions of a Fling on the Wipely. To a large extent, these relationships are considered ‘PURE’, in which they only exist so each partner can Squeeze as many benefits from them as possible. Things fall apart when they begin to Lose that NOVELTY, perhaps revealing additional facets to Nyrita that she tries to bottle ↑. This is an issue in the pursuit of forging meaningful relationships, not necessarily because she doesn’t WANT to pursue any Connection, but because it can become taxing to. Overcoming her apathy to achieve this intimacy is among her greatest challenges. She’s ↑ in arms with the definitions of her own CLASS, inherently destructive in nature. Ultimately, she is trying to put the effort in to feel like a PERSON, to be more than a Destroyer. But is it enough for *her*? TA-DA, the part where I 🗨 about you TO you! I think what’s important is that you are trying to forge those meaningful relationships, you’re trying to give things PURPOSE. You’re trying to give yourself purpose amidst this. You know you can’t reverse the clock and fix what you have broken, the things that BROKE around you, but you push forward anyway. The progress has been evident, but is it really healthy to cope this way? Have you ever sat ↓, REALLY sat ↓, to reflect on WHO YOU ARE? To relegate yourself to Your Girl, Nyrita denies you the → to be simply Nyrita Surname. And you deserve to be more than this. So are you truly happy where you are? As far as I can tell, you're CERTAINLY HAPPY, PLEASURED, and yet you still have some things to work out. Feelings and Sensations are Temporary. Identity, changing, lasts forever. But the best part among all of this is that you won’t have to do this Alone. PLEASE SEE: STERNBERG’S TRIANGLE OF ♥ THEORY, THE ‘PURE RELATIONSHIP’, APATHY/INDIFFERENCE, HABITUAL DESENSITIZATION, ♥ VS. LUST, INTERCOURSE AS A WAY TO AVOID TRAUMA, EVASIVE MANEUVERING, 🗨 THERAPY. (CLASSPECT: BARD OF HEART! https://file.garden/aZrbEVKh⒊wfTGmpc/coolchat.gif Shadows and Mirrors her ASPECT. Has made most of the progress required to best the Bard’s Plight. Trying to feel something in the grand scheme of a world that has come crashing ↓ far too many times, waging a war against her own indifference. This is the easiest way to do so.) https://file.garden/aZrbEVKh⒊wfTGmpc/meow.png Wowie Zowie. SO YEAH, GIVE NYRITA A FOLLOW, AND I’LL SEE YOU IN THE NEXT ONE (⒈)! #gandertag #sorrynyrita #ilikeyou #nyritaneedsahug #wowiezowie

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