An9nym9us says: "d9 y9u have any acc9unts 9f happening 9n s9me9ne nude? i just think it 6e really inf9rmative t9 have a first hand acc9unt seeing s9me9ne nude. what w9uld 6e the c9rrect thing t9 d9? what sh9uld i say? i d9n't' want t9 96jectify them 6y l99king d9wn 9r 69dy shame them either. #NSFW #N9nsexualNSFW #N9nsexualNudity #Pu6licNudity #69dyShaming #FirsthandAcc9unt" Re: y9ur first inquiry, that I will again n9t 6e including: Yes please. I h9pe I didn't leave y9u with the impressi9n I was wh9lly uninterested. As f9r the meat 9f y9ur questi9n: Regretta6ly, I did 9nce walk in 9n a friend (wh9 will remain nameless f9r the sake 9f privacy) alm9st entirely uncl9thed. It is n9t a mem9ry I like t9 dwell 9n. 6ut I digress. 96vi9usly, I didn't let my gander6ul6s linger 9n her nude f9rm. I kept my gaze affixed firmly 9n her face as s99n as I realized I was seeing a l9t m9re fleshy grey pr9trusi9ns than usual and swiftly shut the d99r t9 give her a chance t9 make herself decent. Afterwards, we had a calm and rati9nal discussi9n a69ut the event. I t9ld her that, in my defense, s9me pe9ple really 9ught t9 6e a 6it m9re mindful when it c9mes t9 assuring their hive d99rs are l9cked, th9ugh in her defense, as she has repeatedly argued, I "sh9uld kn9w 6etter" than t9 enter s9me9ne's h9me after n9t hearing a resp9nse t9 my kn9cking. 6ut in *my* defense, again, she knew I w9uld 6e c9ming 9ver.that day and it isn't my fault that s9me pe9ple suffer fr9m p99r scheduling and the ina6ility t9 stay cl9thed in their hives. I c9nfirmed 9ver and 9ver again that I wasn't shaming her 69dy, just that seeing it unexpectedly simply made me unc9mf9rta6le, and I think I g9t thr9ugh t9 her eventually. Th9ugh I cann9t d9 anything a69ut the revealing nature in which she ch99ses t9 dress n9rmally, we have thankfully managed t9 av9id any such em6arrassments in the future. If y9u find y9urself in a situati9n where y9u have accidentally c9me acr9ss s9me9ne in the nude, particularly if this pers9n is a cl9se friend 9f y9urs, 9r s9me9ne y9u desire t9 6e cl9ser t9, it is imp9rtant that y9u heed my advice. Y9u can 69th av9id 96jectificati9n and shaming 9f their f9rm 6y remem6ering t9 avert y9ur eyes, 9r, if y9u are in a situati9n where y9u cann9t entirely l99k away, 6y at least keeping y9ur gaze firmly affixed t9 their face. This way, the 9ther pers9n is reassured that y9u are n9t leering unc9mf9rta6ly at them in such a vulnera6le state. If they invite y9u t9 l99k anyway, I pers9nally w9uldn't, 6ut having explicit c9nsent turns the event fr9m a m9ment 9f em6arrassment t9 a cele6rati9n 9f nudity, and I supp9se y9u can all9w y9urself t9 indulge with this pers9n's permissi9n. 9f c9urse, if the setting all9ws it, y9u can av9id all 9f this c9nfusi9n 6y extracting y9urself fr9m the 9ther pers9n's presence as I did and grant them a chance t9 redress. Regardless, it's imp9rtant t9 have a discussi9n with them afterwards a69ut the 6reach 9f 69undaries that t99k place 6y y9u 6eing f9rced t9 see s9me9ne naked when y9u weren't wanting 9r expecting t9, s9 y9u and this 9ther pers9n can 6e 9n the same page g9ing f9rward a69ut the expectati9ns 9f nudity in y9ur friendship. #Pers9nalAnecd9te #QnA #KankrisAsk69x #An9nym9us https://f9rms.gle/1mzxNi3S8sAc8Ter9

