Kankri Vantas
@condemnedGlossolalia
S9cial justice enthusiast. TW f9r : L9ng speeches, ram6les, hem9classism, classism, and any 9ther p9ssi6ly triggering c9ntent will 6e tagged here and in p9sts.
>> Hell9, every9ne. I think f9rcing pe9ple t9 wear dresses 9r sh9w 9ff their "string 6ikinis" is highly inappr9priate and p9ssi6ly degrading. Even th9ugh, wearing a piece 9f fa6ric sh9uld n9t 6e degrading, s9me pe9ple can think 9f it is as such. Pe9ple sh9uld wear what they're c9mf9rta6le with, and the act 9f pressuring 9r f9rcing them is highly pr96lematic. There are reas9ns pe9ple are unc9mf9rta6le with wearing dresses, even th9ugh that within itself is r99ted in mis9gyny and purity culture. But it can als9 6e f9r sens9ry reas9ns, 9r f9r insecurity reas9ns. But I 6elieve it is mainly r99ted in the idea that dresses and 6ikinis are traditi9nally feminine cl9thing. Y9u sh9uld 6e all9wed t9 sh9w 9ff as much skin as y9u are c9mf9rta6le with, whether that 6e n9ne 9r all. But make sure the pe9ple ar9und y9u are c9mf9rta6le as well, the site 9f skin with9ut c9nsent can 6e harmful 9r triggering. Please dress t9 y9urs, 9r 9thers, c9mf9rta6ility, and d9 n9t feel pressured int9 wearing cl9thes that y9u d9n't find c9mf9rta6le. Life sh9uld 6e a69ut c9mf9rta6ility and acc9mm9dati9n. And I d9u6t it w9uld 6e an issue f9r y9u n9t t9 wear a dress / 6ikini, unless the 9ther pers9n is c9ntr9lling and f9rceful. #genderstere9types #mis9gyny #f9rce #suggestive
>> Please tag negative self-talk. This can 6e a triggering su6ject t9 s9me and can make pe9ple insecure. While I d9 6elieve that it's n9t y9ur j96 t9 cater t9 9ther pe9ple's em9ti9ns, I 6elieve we can all 6e mindful 9f 9ne an9ther. C9nsider the c9nsequences 9f y9ur acti9ns. Y9ur p9st a69ut y9ur 69dy can ruin s9me9ne's day with the same 69dy type, 9r even w9rse, it c9uld p9ssi6ly trigger 9r distress them entirely. I w9n't waste t99 much 9f y9ur time with this 9ne, since I have a rather simple p9int, 6ut far t99 many pe9ple are c9mf9rta6le d9wn-talking themselves in the pr9ximity 9f 9thers. Especially in 9nline spaces where y9u d9 n9t kn9w wh9 can see y9ur p9sts. Negative self-talk is extremely harmful f9r 69th y9urself and 9thers. #vaguep9sting #directp9sting #negativeselftalk #69dyimageissues
>> I've n9ticed a l9t 9f nudity 9n this we6site, and while it's perfectly 9kay t9 sh9w 9ff y9ur 69dy in adult spaces, even enc9uraged if y9u're pr9ud 9f it, I'd say there's m9re imp9rtant matters that need t9 6e discussed than physical attracti9n. Physical attracti9n within itself is a lengthy su6ject which needs t9 6e t9uched 9n, in 69th humans and tr9llkind. N9t t9 exclude any 9ther alien race, I am simply n9t inf9rmed en9ugh t9 speak 9n th9se species myself. Beauty standards are a l9ng, and c9mplicated su6ject t9 c9ver. I d9 n9t want t9 trigger any9ne with the "ideal" 69dy type, and I d9n't want t9 trigger th9se wh9 d9n't have it. N9w, I've seen a l9t 9f 9versexualized 69dies 9n here, and I think nudity sh9uld 6e 69th artistic and sexual, and we sh9uldn't c9ndemn 9urselves t9 9ne 9r an9ther. But the unrealistic pr9p9rti9ns I've seen 9n this we6site can 6e extremely harmful t9 th9se wh9 are y9unger adults 9r insecure a69ut their 69dies. While I'm n9t saying y9u sh9uld 6e ashamed, I am saying s9me s9rt 9f trigger warning sh9uld 6e put int9 place f9r hypersexual 69dy types and hypersexual images 9f said 69dy types. But I d9 6elieve every9ne sh9uld 6e pr9ud 9f h9w they l99k, every9ne is unique and 6eautiful in their 9wn way. Als9, sexual t9pics and images can 6e triggering f9r pe9ple with trauma having t9 d9 with th9se su6jects, 9r asexual pe9ple wh9 are triggered 9r disgusted 6y sex in general. Be mindful 9f th9se ar9und y9u, and always pr9perly tag and trigger warn y9ur images. #nsfw #69dyimage #sexualc9ntent #6eautystandards
[~~ $ Baby~ $ ~~] All I heard doll, "blah blah blah" I get no nook.
>> Please refrain fr9m calling me nicknames with9ut c9nsent. This c9uld 6e triggering, and it makes me pers9nally unc9mf9rta6le. Als9, please try t9 6e mindful. I'm c9vering a l9t 9f imp9rtant issues, and y9u playing it d9wn t9 "6lah 6lah 6lah" is extremely hurtful and pr96lematic and I d9 h9pe y9u'll d9 6etter in the future. And an9ther thing, 6ringing up sexual 69dy parts in a c9nversati9n that isn't sexual can 6e triggering t9 s9me. And it is als9 pr96lematic t9 assume my sexual status. It is my ch9ice t9 "get n9 n99k" 6ecause I am celi6ate. Be aware 9f wh9 y9u're talking t9, y9u c9uld 6e speaking t9 s9me9ne asexual, 9r wh9 d9esn't participate in sex 6ecause 9f religi9us 6eliefs. This c9uld 6e extremely triggering t9 s9me at w9rst, and extremely disrespectful at 6est. #religi9n #sexualmatters #disrespect #celi6acy #nsfw
>> Hell9, Mituna. Please d9 n9t resp9nd t9 my "Chits" if y9u d9n't have anything t9 add t9 the c9nversati9n. I am c9vering a l9t 9f imp9rtant gr9und and it is disrespectful t9 say y9u're n9t reading it. But I d9 understand it may 6e hard t9 pr9cess, s9 I can sh9rten it f9r y9u t9 the 6est 9f my a6ilities : Hypersexual and 9versexualizing y9urself can 6e harmful, and p9sting 9nly sexual c9ntent can als9 6e harmful. We sh9uld 6e mindful 9f the pe9ple 9n this site. S9me can 6e triggered 6y sexual c9ntent. While I'm n9t disc9uraging 6eing pr9ud 9f y9ur 69dy, and flaunting it, I 6elieve there is a time and a place. I am als9 saying that the issues with 6eauty standards is a t9pic that needs t9 6e talked a69ut, in all cultures. The 6eauty standard is an extremely harmful standard that s9me pe9ple feel pressure t9 live up t9 and they sh9uldn't. But I can't c9ntr9l, 9r tell pe9ple, what they sh9uld and sh9uldn't care a69ut. Is this easier t9 understand and pr9cess? #nsfw #unrealistic69dystandards #6eautystandards #69dytypes #sexualc9ntent