I'm divided on this issue.
Yeah, I’ll be real with you, that’s vague as fuck. What do you want to do? If there were no consequences. Hypothetically.
I want to make them both happy.
Mh. Not the best pickle to be in. Tell them as much.
The situation stems from the fact I cannot talk with either of them about this situation. They both despise each other.
So, finding a middle ground is out of the window. I figure you’re being vague on purpose, so I won’t ask, but this would be easier to offer advice on if I knew who you were trying so hard to please.
If you'd like vague descriptions without me going out of the way to name them, the one who is in charge of me and my Ex are the two candidates in this situation.
Power dynamic doesn’t sound great in the former. Do you still have feelings for your ex?
Strongly.
I think you’ve got your answer there.
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