venting my crush on rose here so it doesnt change how i act around her shes so kind and funny and cute and pretty and whenever im around her i cant help but be happy!! ok!! emotions vented back to pretending i dont have them :/
thats so scary!! no way!! D:
what's wrong with telling people they are pretty? most people like a certain amount of complements!
i dont wanna be jade "would date any of her fem friends" harley :(
who said that's what that is? telling your friends they look good is flattering! you don't have to date them because you tell them they look pretty!
ok but maybe i wanna :T
then do it! but own it. fuck the haters. and also maybe *fuck* the hater, because spades is a thing actually! you're allowed to do almost anything you want! the rules are made up and we're all playing pretend! so do what makes you happy!!!
that requires a lot of communication and dating people is more than just cuddling.... it truly isnt that simple :/
yeah, communication is needed. it's so important! you can't do the really good stuff if you don't communicate. and you clearly want to do the really good stuff. i know it can be hard, but the rewards are so good!
i know but thats also way pressure especially with my memory problems :(
if they value you the way you value them, they will work with you. when someone means enough, you help them. you move mountains for them. you cuddle with them while they get through a thing. you're there the way they need you to be there. i promise, people who love you will help carry the weight.