um how do you know if the relationship your debating is gonna be hella toxic or not should probably ask if their single actually
is there any possessiveness? immaturity, no desire to communicate... any cyclical hot and cold stuff? those are the biggest red flags.
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no she and i have been talking...just i really am not the best person and i think she has done similar issues to me i don't know if it'd be really toxic or healthy for both of us
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if you dont feel ready, dont do it. if the point is to understand each others issues and help each other out, you can already do that as friends. maybe approach it that way first and then see where that takes you further over time.
direct examination testimony: who cares? you're only young once (or forever, if you're immortal or reside in the dream bubbles, in which case anything goes anyway). just be in a toxic relationship & have fun & eventually break your hwart & cry over it & let the wound scam over with time. homewreck them who caressssss just live a little
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ACTUALLY no fuck that! i still got good advice here too! it'll be toxic if either of you are more worried about talkin than listenin. uh look out for if you start keepin a mental checklist a stuff to resent them over or if they're doin that to you. uhhhhh a lot of it boils down to 1) do you want good for each other an 2) are you makin an effort to do that good stuff for each other cause good intentions mean fuckall on their own. oh an just for posterity anythin destructive gotta at LEAST be a work in progress to nip in the bud.
i really appreciate the input but still i'm not sure about the situation:/
sometimes when im stumped i take some time out alone to really think about it. maybe you need the same. but, whatever you decide, just know theres no wrong way to love, okay?