maybe i'm talking out my nok but i feel like the ashen and black quadrants miht be bad. like, for or collective mental health.
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To not be harsh. They hold their place. a mediator is ≈ise to keep everyone in check regardless of red pale or black, and black, ≈ell. Its al≈ays healthy to have some competition. If you're doing pitch ≈ith the intent on killing one another you're doing it ≈rong. But. Fucking each other over? Beating the shit out of each other? That kind of rivalry has its place.
TL;DR - Pitch relationships are actually quite healthy, being premised on catharsis and the improvement of the self. HOWEVER, I do agree with (SOME) ashen relationships. They can get pretty nasty. Hey! Despite the CLIMATE OF OPINION, it all really depends on context, particularly who you're with in a pitch relationship. If you're actively trying to hurt one another, then that's A BIG NO-NO. Kismesissitudes are expressly driven by the DESIRE TO SELF-IMPROVE, with your pitchipartner as fuel to that betterment (if only to become better than that sack of S-H-I-T). I can understand why pitch relationships can seem HARMFUL, especially with how they're portrayed in movie media. It's a cathartic kind of romance, I [HONK]ure you. The best part is that if you KNOW a pitch relationship is barrelling souther than the ♠'s situatory placement, you have the option to break off before someone gets seriously hurt. (But if you can't, this is where auspistices come in. Mediators to the rescue, →? LOL.) Ashen situationships are a bit of the outlier in the sense that it's more of a pre-emptive boon than a committed relationship. That is, keeping said pitchizens away from culling each other. But this is where I extend my agreement with you---at times ashen scenarios can seriously damage one's mental health (ESPECIALLY when you're the middle leaf). In that case, it's advised to tread carefully around volatile pairings, lest you bear the brunt of one.