Sometimes someone tells you they are fine when they clearly aren't and your only options are to either go "alright" and respect their wishes but risk being unable to assist, or to ignore their wishes and help anyway, even if it upsets them. This is a choice that is known as an "impossible choice" because there is no correct answer. That being said, there is often a wrong one, or at least, one that is more wrong than the other. Figuring out which one is the wrong one is the hardest part.
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It certainly is... In a life or death decision I will always measure with my heart. I will do my best to retain trust but there is also a simple truth at the end of the day. A corpse that trusts me is still a corpse. If I can prevent that, then I will.
>>| .it was fun to .overthink this .one, .as my mind .is beaten. sorry, not .as fun, but .as more like .entertaining. .i don't know why, but .i was rereading this .over .and .over .again. perhaps, .i was trying to still find .any benifits .or meaning .in this... well, .i .understand the meaning. so, .it was .only just .about benifits. somehow this thing reminds me .of my .old nights. way, way back .in time when .i had my first moirail. .i was .afraid, .in fear .of losing them .as they helped me .in return. like. much more than .i gave them. but they were 'fine'. .and there .i first met this lie. .at first, .i was blinded. thinking that they were .actually .alright. but more .and more cracks .opened, .until .i confessed with them. .i .asked "you .are my moirail. why you couldn't just .ask .a help from me?". but .in response .i heard " .i was scared ". .i did shooshed them, pat them .and lay .out .all their stress. .it was perfect. perhaps .even magical. .i cherished that moment for .a long, long time. .until .one moment... .and .after .a sweep .and quadrants swapping. you .are correct .about people going .on .and saying that they .are fine. .everyone does. but .it's more .about the reason behind .it. some people tell they're .alright because .it .is truth .and just .a genuine .answer. sometimes .it's .about hiding the statement. .about trying to keep their partner happy. hoping that they not need to worry .about themselves. sometimes .it .is quite different story. perhaps they just don't seek .any help whatsover. .or .even so, they hate the .idea .of .assistance. promising to .everyone .around that they're good, but .on the .other side they mumble that they will fix .issues by their .own hands .and broken mind. .i was .enjoying more .and more .of the sun. well, .i didn't watch directly .into .it, but .i .enjoyed the days .and mornings. the warm rays .of .it, which .are lethal to most trolls. .it was very, very nice. .i loved .it. but now with your chitt, .i made same correlations. don't get me wrong, .i'm just figuring .out. becasue well. you know planets? planets can be different. for .example .alternia. .a planet full .of cycles .of life .and death. .it .is .a wonder just like beforian .or .earth. have you visited them? .i may .assure, .a view .in there .is .a nice. but what .is .actually beautiful .is stars. stars can be different. some .are like the sun. big, white .or yellow, burns bright .as never before. some .are more redder, some .are more bluey. but most .interesting .are those who may .explode. why so? well... you can't do .anything. you just. look .onto .it .and that .is that. you .are .unable to do .anything. maybe say some words, but .in the .end, what may change? .it .is just .a star who may go supernova with .explosion. so why not .indulge .and watching .it .as .it fades .away. just .another light .in the sky... bad .interpretion, but .only .in some part. .on .another side you may .ask "what happens .if .all stars vanish?" now .it seems much more scarier. just havin black, black sky with nothingness. with no meaning. meaningless. .it's not .only boring, but sad. .a magnificent, sad display. but .ask yourself with .one more quesiton. what .is the harm .in going .and .asking the person .if they need help? try to .understand more .and find .if this was .actual .and honest .answer from them .or, the .one who may need help. you never know what more can .unfold behind. .it's like. you .ask how they .are doing, the go same way .over .and .over .and .over .again. with same "fine" .answer. but then you may .ask, with no harm .intent... what .are they doing? .ask what stuff they .are working. maybe .indulge .in some kind .of conversation. .it's much better to go .on with more couple question than just... "greetings. how .are you doing? .oh, good? .alright then." sorry. .i may went .on rambling here. .in the .end point .i wanted to say that .i don't believe .in this... " .impossible choice ". there's .always more choices than that. .even those that .aren't .even harmful. try to find more .about them, .ask them more. well, they may get .upset, but you will know that they need help. just lay .a hand, put the help .on the table .and maybe, they will take .it. .and you will cherish this moment for some quite .a time. knowing that not .only you can reach .out .and help, but .also you saved someonee. someone who you hold tightly to yourself .and cherish .it. sorry.
This was very beautiful Posnah. A good stream of thought. I do not have as long or complex of an answer for you in regards to my own opinions on the matter. I understand that you have very deep thoughts on this matter. Perhaps I was a little too rigid in my speaking, but sometimes there is not the option of being patient, like you speak of. Sometimes, someone is in genuine danger, and you have only the two options. Save them and lose their trust, or let them do their thing and risk losing them to something you cannot even try to rebuild. Your thoughts are good, though. Do not let me dim your light.