@quadrantConundrums — #moirail
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "So I Have A Pale Crush On This Guy, Which Would Normally Be Fine. Except For Two Things: I Already Have A Moirail, And This Other Guy Is An Alternate Version Of Myself. I Don't Want To Lose My Moirail, And I Doubt This Guy Even Wants Me Back, But I Just Can't Shake The Feelings. What Do I Do?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ I Have To Admit This Is Untapped Territory For Me So I Will Be Relying On Alec For Alternate Self Shenanigans. As Someone Who Has Interacted With Themselves Multiple Times They Have Wisdom I Do Not. Alec Says That Feeling #pale For Yourself Is Incredibly Healthy, And Bodes Well For Your Own S...Read more
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "Someone Has Pale Feelings For Me.. But I Don't Like Them Like That. They're A Good Friend! We Spend Quite A Bit Of Time Together Because We Have A Quad With The Same Guy- I'm Not Worried About The State Of Any Of That Because We're All Mature And Whatever. It's Just That I'm Pale For Someone Else- We're Not Official Yet So I Haven't Said Anything But We're Obviously Getting There. What.. What Do??" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ ~ This Question Has Been Edited To Protect The Identity Of The User. #advice Oh What A Doozy. Do They Know You Know? If So Then This Is Very Awkward.. If Not.. Are You Sure They Fee...Read more
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "I Care Deeply About My Moirail... But I Keep Thinking About How Much More Fun We Could Have If They Were My Kismesis Instead. Is That Bad?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice Not At All! This Is Once Again An Example Of #quadrantmixing. It Is Completely Natural For #red And #black Feelings To Bleed Into A #pale Relationship. After All, Moirails Take Up A Concupiscent Role When The Other Two Are Unavailable! As For How To Deal With This, You Can Still Do Black Or Red Actions In A Pale Relationship, And It Still Be Purely Pale, As Long As That Is How You Both Feel! From Your Wording It Sounds Like You ...Read more