@quadrantConundrums — #red
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "hi. Ive Never Had A Red Relationship And Now Im In One. What The Fuck Do I…do." ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice It Is Entirely Natural To Panic When Entering Your First #red Relationship, But First Please Try To Calm Down. Remember That This Person Chose You, They Wanted You, They Wanted What You Had To Give. They Could Have Chosen Anyone But They Chose You And That Means That They Love You And Like You And You Are The Object Of Their Pity. Once You Take A Deep Breath, Think About The Things You Would Like To Do. Spend Time With Them, Hold Them, Pap Them When They're Sad And Be Cuddled When You Are. A...Read more
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "i Can't Tell If I Have A Crush On This.. Jadeblood I Know. It Feels Like Possibly Too Soon As My Quardants Always Fail And It's Likely My Fault. I Can't Tell If He Likes Me Back. I Think He's Handsome And I Enjoy His Voice. It's Really Calming And I Can't Tell If It's Just Me Being An Idiot Or It's Pale Or Is It Flush Or If It Is Anything Of The Sort. It Feels Too Soon. I Don't Want To Hurt Him And It Feels Like I Always Hurt People I Love And I Dont Mean To- I Love Him Enough To Try To Be Pleasant To Be Around- I Mean I Always Fall In Love With People Easily No Matter If I'm In An Quardant And I D...Read more
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "Is It Red To Enjoy Someone's Scent Even If I Hate The Scent By Itself? Random Example Is That I Find It Comforting To Smell.. Blood, And Cigarette Smoke. It Is Happening A Lot And I Can't Tell If It Is Anything. I Know That I Can Be Attracted To People And If I Am, Romance Should Bloom.. Right?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ ~ This Conundrum Has Been Edited To.. Not So Much Protect The Identity Of The User But Spare Their Feelings. I'm Sure You Would Not Like A Few Of These Thoughts Broadcast So We Have Heavily Shortened The Question. It Is Not Necessarily #red..? But It May Indicate Some Deeper Feelings That I Don...Read more
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "Can We Mhave Multiple Matesprits We Want Everyone So Mucchhh, Theyre All So Pretty And Cute Can We Just Propose To Them All And Take Turns Kissin Eachother" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ Once Again We Don't Have #advice But We Do Have An #opinion. Yes!! As Long As All The People In The #quadrant Are Aware Of Each Other And Consent To Being In The Situation, There Is No Problem With This! For Example, Three Of #teamquad Are In A #polyamorous #moiraillgiance. It Is A Quad-by-quad Opinion And You Can Be Poly-#pale Without Being Poly-#red, The Same Goes For The Other Quadrants Too! You Could Be Poly In All Of ...Read more
I Don't Think I'm Qualified For This One, But We Do Have A Jade On #teamquad Who Works In The Caverns So I Will Be Doing My Best To Translate Their Rambles! ⋆♤˚⟡˖ "Wh⛧t The F█ck Is Even Th█ P⛧int ⛧f Th█ R█d ⛧nd L█ss R█d Q█⛧dr⛧nts, Why H⛧ve ⛧nything ⛧th█r Th⛧n Pure H⛧t█ H⛧nestly????" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ ~ @bloodiedwings Not So Much #advice As This Is Just #information Or #guidance. This Will Delve Into Slight #nsfw Language. #pale And #flushed Relationships Are Actually Very Important To The Continued Existence Of The Species! #matesprits And #moirails Fill In A Gap In Our Society Reserved For The Need T...Read more
Mea Is Out Sick For The Second Day In A Row So I Guess I'm Taking Over For The Next Few. ⋆♤˚⟡˖ "So What Is Your Opinion On Black-red Vacillation?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice #opinion If Both People Are Enjoying It, And You Aren't Getting #culled By #drones, You Don't Need To Worry. Live Out Your #pitch Hatred By Roughing Each Other Up Then Get That #flushed Comfort By Fixing Each Other Up And Being Overly #red After. Who Cares? ♠ #quadrantconundrums ♥
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "I Care Deeply About My Moirail... But I Keep Thinking About How Much More Fun We Could Have If They Were My Kismesis Instead. Is That Bad?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice Not At All! This Is Once Again An Example Of #quadrantmixing. It Is Completely Natural For #red And #black Feelings To Bleed Into A #pale Relationship. After All, Moirails Take Up A Concupiscent Role When The Other Two Are Unavailable! As For How To Deal With This, You Can Still Do Black Or Red Actions In A Pale Relationship, And It Still Be Purely Pale, As Long As That Is How You Both Feel! From Your Wording It Sounds Like You ...Read more
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "My Ex-matesprit Left Me How Do I Get Her Back? Is There A Going Back?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ ~ This Question Has Been Edited To Protect The Identity Of The User #advice Well, Darling, That Entirely Depends On Two Factors. How Did You Break Up And How Long Ago Was It? ~ If It Was More Than A Perigree Ago, You Should Probably Try To Move On. ~ If The Break Up Was Messy, Or In Any Way Negative Or Bitter, I Would Also Try To Move On. ~ If It Was Both #amicable And Less Than A Few Days Ago, Then Sit Her Down And Talk It Out! Tell Her You Still Love Her, You Want To Still Be #red, And Talk About What Caus...Read more
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "My Kismesis Hasn't Been Sending Me The Same Kind Of Hate They've Usually Been Giving And I'm Starting To Get Worried That I'm Not Good Enough For Them Anymore? We Used To Be Really Good With Jumping Each Other In The Street But Recently I've Noticed They're Not Scratching Me As Deep And Their Insults Have Gotten... Really Mediocre Compared To What We're Used To And It's Messing With Me. What Should I Do?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice #suggestive? Okay, First Things First You Need To Not Panic. A Lack Of Black Affection Does Not Necessarily Mean Feelings Have Changed! Once You Have Calmed Down, Ask Y...Read more
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "What Does One Do If, For The Sake Of A Hypothetical Situation Rather Than A True To Life Experience, They Experienced Interest For One Individual In All Four Quadrants?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ ~ This Question Has Been Edited To Protect The Identity Of The User #advice While Fairly Taboo In Most Places, We Here At #teamquad Actually Have A Human In Our Ranks! This Means We Have A Unique Insight Into #quadrantmixing, A Subject That Often Has To Pried Out Of Our Fellow Trolls As If By An Imperial Investigator. We Understand The Struggles That May Come From Having Such Mixed Feelings About A Person. #re...Read more
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "What Do You Do If You Want Someone To Hate You, But You Feel Something Closer To… Admiration For Them?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice Great Question! First You Have To Figure Out If This Admiration Is Of A #red Or #black Variety. Is This An Admiration Of Their Actions And Character? Or Is It Of Their Physical Prowess? If You Think About The Reasons For Your Feelings Do They Feel Like Your Chest Aches In Want Or Is There A Bubbling In The Pit Of Your Stomach? Either Way, Don't Be Afraid To Explore This Feeling Within Your Sponge. Sit With It, Allow Yourself To Be Alone With Your Thoughts, Do They ...Read more