@quadrantConundrums — #advice
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "I'm Starting To Feel Like My Auspistice Has Been Getting Flushed For Me, And To Be Honest I've Not Been Feeling Ashen For Them... But Pale. Are We Doomed?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice I Am.. So Sorry, But I Think You Might Be.. Okay, Maybe Not Completely- A Lot Of #pale Affection Can Be Mistaken For #flushed Depending On The Lens, So I Think It Is Definitely Worth Sitting Down And Talking To Each Other About Just How Pink The Territory You're Getting Into Is. One Of My Fellow #teamquad Have Told Me To Tell You To Get It Done Before #pailingseason Starts, Just In Case, Since Even A Pale Quadran...Read more
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "I Care Deeply About My Moirail... But I Keep Thinking About How Much More Fun We Could Have If They Were My Kismesis Instead. Is That Bad?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice Not At All! This Is Once Again An Example Of #quadrantmixing. It Is Completely Natural For #red And #black Feelings To Bleed Into A #pale Relationship. After All, Moirails Take Up A Concupiscent Role When The Other Two Are Unavailable! As For How To Deal With This, You Can Still Do Black Or Red Actions In A Pale Relationship, And It Still Be Purely Pale, As Long As That Is How You Both Feel! From Your Wording It Sounds Like You ...Read more
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "My Ex-matesprit Left Me How Do I Get Her Back? Is There A Going Back?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ ~ This Question Has Been Edited To Protect The Identity Of The User #advice Well, Darling, That Entirely Depends On Two Factors. How Did You Break Up And How Long Ago Was It? ~ If It Was More Than A Perigree Ago, You Should Probably Try To Move On. ~ If The Break Up Was Messy, Or In Any Way Negative Or Bitter, I Would Also Try To Move On. ~ If It Was Both #amicable And Less Than A Few Days Ago, Then Sit Her Down And Talk It Out! Tell Her You Still Love Her, You Want To Still Be #red, And Talk About What Caus...Read more
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "My Kismesis Hasn't Been Sending Me The Same Kind Of Hate They've Usually Been Giving And I'm Starting To Get Worried That I'm Not Good Enough For Them Anymore? We Used To Be Really Good With Jumping Each Other In The Street But Recently I've Noticed They're Not Scratching Me As Deep And Their Insults Have Gotten... Really Mediocre Compared To What We're Used To And It's Messing With Me. What Should I Do?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice #suggestive? Okay, First Things First You Need To Not Panic. A Lack Of Black Affection Does Not Necessarily Mean Feelings Have Changed! Once You Have Calmed Down, Ask Y...Read more
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "What Does One Do If, For The Sake Of A Hypothetical Situation Rather Than A True To Life Experience, They Experienced Interest For One Individual In All Four Quadrants?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ ~ This Question Has Been Edited To Protect The Identity Of The User #advice While Fairly Taboo In Most Places, We Here At #teamquad Actually Have A Human In Our Ranks! This Means We Have A Unique Insight Into #quadrantmixing, A Subject That Often Has To Pried Out Of Our Fellow Trolls As If By An Imperial Investigator. We Understand The Struggles That May Come From Having Such Mixed Feelings About A Person. #re...Read more
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "I'm Worried That My Career Has Turned Away Potential Quadmates, Even The Conciliatory Ones. How Do Deal With This..? I Don't Want To Quit, I Enjoy My Work." ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice Well That Is Quite The Conundrum.. If You Enjoy Your Work Then Don't Give It Up, Remember That A #quadrant Is Never A Replacement For A Fulfilling Life! It Should Enhance Your Time On The Planet, Not Be Its Only Purpose. That Being Said, Have People Actually Told You This Or Is It An Assumption You're Making Yourself? No Matter Which, The Right Troll Will Come Along. Don't Ever Change Yourself To Fit What Someon...Read more
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "What Do You Do If You Want Someone To Hate You, But You Feel Something Closer To… Admiration For Them?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice Great Question! First You Have To Figure Out If This Admiration Is Of A #red Or #black Variety. Is This An Admiration Of Their Actions And Character? Or Is It Of Their Physical Prowess? If You Think About The Reasons For Your Feelings Do They Feel Like Your Chest Aches In Want Or Is There A Bubbling In The Pit Of Your Stomach? Either Way, Don't Be Afraid To Explore This Feeling Within Your Sponge. Sit With It, Allow Yourself To Be Alone With Your Thoughts, Do They ...Read more