~ I'm curiouS to See Something. Are there any trollS who feel like quadrant System doesn't work for them Since their relationship can't really fit any of them? (like it haS certain qualitieS of all of them at the Same time, or whatever any other possible variation, yet it'S not a vacillation) I know it'S definitely a thing Since I've heard about Some caseS, but I just want to See how common it iS at least among folkS over here.
y3-ah, i hav3- thr3-3- kism3-sis3-s and th3-r3-'s a whol3- lot of quadrant bl3-3-d going on with us. hon3-stly, i only call th3-m that b3-caus3- it's th3- b3-st way to d3-scrib3- th3- r3-lationship for outsid3-rs. th3-y bully m3-. i liv3- to piss th3-m off. but i cant say i actually hat3- any of th3-m. it's d3-finit3-ly lov3-.
I'M PRETTY SURE YOU'RE BEING FUCKED WITH. IT'S LITERALLY NOT POSSIBLE FOR ANY FORM OF ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP TO EXIST OUTSIDE THE QUADRANT SYSTEM, BECAUSE THEY'RE A PERFECT DISJOINT PARTITION OF THE ENTIRE SET OF POSSIBLE RELATIONSHIPS. ANY ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP CAN BE STRICTLY FIT INTO ONE OF THE FOUR.
no fuck go away you w3-r3-n't suppos3-d to s3-3- that
Yes and no? I have two matesprits, and whi/e my fee/ings for them are unambiguous/y f/ush, the system isn't quite structured with po/yamory within a sing/e quadrant in mind.
~ And I'm Sure I'm not actually. I feel like feelingS can be more complex SometimeS to just fit them in a Singular quadrant. So idk on your place I'd try to be a bit more open-minded about it.
~ Calling them with familiar to outsiderS term iS So real honestly. I have a matesprit whom I call thiS way just to make it easier to everyone LOL, cause in reality there'S a lot of other quadrantS overlap/bleed (yeS, that'S why thiS question waS So oddly Specific). Though I did have classic quadrantS back in the day too.
~ I'd Say it countS in a way yea, Since yea it Still doesn't really fit the System