
is it really abuse if when they hit you it really doesn't hurt that much #cw-abuse

but like it wasn't even a big deal-

hmmmm :/

it kinda is tho?

meh...

not really, it was an old relationship anyways and they were just stressed y'know?

stress is a rly fuckin shitty reason 2 hurt some1 even if it didnt actually hurt the intent was still there

It's not necessarily about the physical pain. It's the way it makes you feel, especially about yourself.

i mean ... i kinda deserved it though y'know? they were stressed back then and i was clingy they had every right.

Physical force should ideally never be used with an intimate partner unless all other avenues have been exhausted. Or unless it's a consensual element of play. You should listen to your moirail on this, they've got a good head on her shoulders.

they do don't they... ...i'll um...listen a little more on what they have to say i guess. thanks for caring about it i guess