with this whole quadrant deal is so mind twisting and i am but a marsupial with no wrinkles in the brain ❤️ - kinda human dating but like not exactly? ive been told there is a pity aspect in it but i cant wrap my feeble human mind around it. i cannot comprehend pitying your partner, but maybe i need exposure ♦️ - queerplatonic pity are labels i would use for this but again, in practice it feels weird to describe any positive emotion as pity. i got this one bagged with khrissy, but like... idk i can see why khrissy pities me but i just adore khrissy platonically. idk man, khrissy seems so put together and cool and shit aint nothin to pity ♠️ - enemies to lovers but like lovers in the sense of "we fuckin" and not "i love you." i was given the term rivalry, which makes much more sense to me, because like you can be miffed by them but not want ill on them. like theres a banter? im thinkin of wrestling terms like "heel" perhaps, mutual heel behaviour. that leaves ♣️, but thats even more confusing because it feels so siutational? like you can only mediate so much before things are either reconcilled or explode. i cant see this being a long term relationship dynamic, and it feels so stressful on the mediator who has to shoulder the weight of the two bickering parties. am i just stupid?



