Kankri V.

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#CAGTTL #Du6c9n #Menti9ns9fDu6c9n #Manipulati9nTactics #Menti9ns9fManipulati9nTactics #N9tSp9ns9red #NSFW #NSFWT9pics #Casteism #Hem9casteism #CasteismMenti9n #Hem9casteismMenti9n #Stere9types #Stere9typeMenti9n We've g9tten a l9t 9f c9mments and reviews lately 9n the #6ef9rus69ys #P9dcast asking why we have yet t9 address 9ne 9f 9ur c9h9st's recent inflammat9ry remarks. Please kn9w that 9ur silence is n9t an intenti9nal dismissal n9r a tacit end9rsement, 6ut an unf9rtunate 9versight due t9 scheduling c9nflicts. I wanted t9 address it 9n the p9dcast, 6ut my c9h9sts claim they're "t99 6usy" t9 carve a measly f9ur h9urs 9ut 9f every day f9r a discussi9n. As such, I'm left with n9 ch9ice 6ut t9 6ring the c9nversati9n here. First 9f all, please st9p using the c9mments and reviews t9 inquire a69ut disc9urse happening 9n Chittr. I understand y9u are in need 9f an 9utlet f9r y9ur th9ughts, 6ut these are spaces dedicated t9 discussing the t9pics menti9ned 9n the p9dcast, pr9viding feed6ack a69ut 9ur f9rmat, and su6mitting c9nversati9n t9pics f9r future epis9des. D9ing this dilutes the space with unnecessary c9nversati9n and p9tentially turns away new listeners wh9 are c9ming t9 us f9r 9ur guidance and insight 9n imp9rtant issues. Any and all criticism f9r Cr9nus Amp9ra's Guide t9 the Ladies can 6e directed t9 Cr9nus himself @aeneasCaldarium, 9r, if y9u cann9t 6ring y9urself t9 speak t9 him directly, y9u can use my DMs as a #SafeSpace and I will relay the message t9 him myself. Sec9nd, 6ut equally as imp9rtantly, please kn9w that the 6ef9rus 69ys p9dcast is in n9 way affiliated with Cr9nus Amp9ra's Guide t9 the Ladies, n9r d9 we want it t9 6e. Th9ugh I can 9nly speak f9r myself, I am sure @aer9dynamicTramp w9uld agree with me that Cr9nus' s9 called "guide" (which reads m9re like an excuse t9 6rag a69ut his pr9claimed sexual pr9wess with (thankfully) n9 pr99f t9 c9rr969rate his statements), is n9thing sh9rt 9f disrespectful. As s9me9ne wh9 has s9 6ravely decided t9 read each installment in the series in 9rder t9 pr9perly pr9vide criticism f9r pe9ple wh9 cann9t 9r d9 n9t have the mental faculties t9 d9 s9 themselves, what stands 9ut t9 me is that his "advice" 69ils d9wn t9 little m9re than manipulati9n and preying 9n insecurities. His tactics are inaccurate, and in a l9t 9f cases, d9wnright h9rrifying. He 9perates 9n the 6aseline assumpti9n that these w9men and w9men-identifying individuals are already r9mantically/sexually interested in him and w9rks 6ackwards 6ased 9n this c9nclusi9n. 9f c9urse, this is the wr9ng way t9 g9 a69ut s9liciting affecti9n fr9m an9ther pers9n. Y9u sh9uld always appr9ach y9ur r9mantic interest with the intent 9f getting t9 kn9w them as a friend first. That way, even if y9u get rejected, instead 9f manipulating their interest, y9u can simply take pride in having a new plat9nic acquaintance. Remem6er, g99d friends are m9re valua6le than 9ne-day flings. N9t 9nly this, 6ut he seems particularly c9nvinced that all warm6l99ded w9men secretly fetishize c99l6l99ded males, which I h9pefully d9n't have t9 tell y9u, dear, reader, is an egregi9us and harmful stere9type that negatively affects n9t just warm6l99ded w9men, 6ut warm6l99ded men, n9n-men, n9n6inaries, n9ntrinaries, and 9ther such gender c9nfigurati9n that falls 9utside 9f the ar6itrary delineati9ns 9f "w9men" and "n9t w9men". While it may 6e true 9n 9ccasi9n t9 find a warm6l99d wh9 p9ssesses this s9rt 9f fetish, f9r s9me reas9n especially 9n Chittr, it is wr9ng t9 assume that every 9ne y9u meet will, and in d9ing s9 y9u are merely perpetuating stere9types that have 6een used thr9ugh9ut hist9ry t9 96jectify and 9ppress. In my pers9nal 9pini9n, this is n9thing 6ut c9nfirmati9n 6ias, as there are very few tr9lls "higher" (a term I put in scarequ9tes 6ecause we are, 9f c9urse, all equal) 9n the hem9spectrum than a R9yal-V like Cr9nus. It's easy t9 assume that s9me9ne interested in y9u is 9nly interested 6ecause 9f superficial qualities like 6l99d c9l9r 9r s9cial status, 6ut I w9uld cauti9n against this mindset as it can lead t9 making y9ur partner(s) feel as if y9u like 9r hate 9r pity 9r mediate them f9r all the wr9ng reas9ns. If y9u have 6een pers9nally 9r impers9nally victimized 6y Cr9nus Amp9ra's Guide t9 the Ladies, I h9pe y9u take s9lace in the news that I will 6e th9r9ughly chewing him 9ut and putting an end t9 this 6ef9re he can c9ntinue.