
Is it flattering to be flirted with while crying? Or, does this sound like a fetish being fulfilled? #Suggestive

I feel like, it depends on the context of the situation.

Both?
maybe a little bit of both? especially depending on what's happening.

Fair enough, context is everything.

Yeah, but maybe treat it as a bit of both for safe measure.

I'll need to explore this further, hm.
i can see a world where someone flirts with me while i'm crying and it makes me the happiest i've ever been. but also it could totally be to make me cry, and those are two completely different things. does that make sense?

It does. It just feels difficult to appreciate the former...Tears tend to make a mess of things, no?
i mean you're definitely not wrong. i think the first one is more aspirational.

cant it be both?