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An9nym9us says: "Hi. S9 this is 9ne 9f y9ur alternates. I 6elieve I feel pale f9r my quadrantmate's 9ther n9n-pale quadrantmate. The pr96lem is. I d9n't want t9 d9 anything that w9uld change what my quadrantmate has with the guy. 6ut he is just. I d9n't kn9w. I feel the need t9 keep him safe and pr9tect him. I'm pretty sure the pers9n I feel pale f9r d9esn't have a m9irail yet. 6ut part 9f me fears that the dynamic c9uld change a l9t if I g9t pale with the guy in questi9n. I have talked t9 my quadrantmate a69ut this and he says that it w9uldn't change anything 6etween him and the 9ther guy. 6ut I have my ...Read more
T9night, I w9uld like t9 9pen up a discussi9n 9n the t9pic 9f repenting. T9 start 9ff, I w9uld like t9 pr9vide a disclaimer that, despite the religi9us c9nn9tati9n this term 9ften carries, it is imp9rtant t9 keep in mind g9ing f9rward that repentance is a wh9lly secular practice that any pers9n 9r n9n-pers9n identifying individual can participate in. I, f9r example, f9ll9w n9 religi9n 9r faith, 6ut I am a 6ig pr9p9nent 9f this idea and 6elieve m9re pe9ple w9uld 6e 6etter 9ff if they did as well. 6ut what d9es it mean t9 repent, y9u may 6e w9ndering? Well, Meriam-We6str defines repenting as "t9 feel ...Read more