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⋆♤˚⟡˖ "I'm Starting To Feel Like My Auspistice Has Been Getting Flushed For Me, And To Be Honest I've Not Been Feeling Ashen For Them... But Pale. Are We Doomed?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice I Am.. So Sorry, But I Think You Might Be.. Okay, Maybe Not Completely- A Lot Of #pale Affection Can Be Mistaken For #flushed Depending On The Lens, So I Think It Is Definitely Worth Sitting Down And Talking To Each Other About Just How Pink The Territory You're Getting Into Is. One Of My Fellow #teamquad Have Told Me To Tell You To Get It Done Before #pailingseason Starts, Just In Case, Since Even A Pale Quadrant Is Better For Your Situation Than Ashen, But Please Try Not To Rush Into Anything. If They Are Indeed Flushed, And You Are Not, Then You Need To Come To A Compromise. It May Be Best In That Situation To Break Up, But Remain Friends If You Can, Since You Obviously Care About Each Other A Lot. It Is Just Difficult For You Both In This Situation. ♣♥ #quadrantconundrums ♦♣
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "I Care Deeply About My Moirail... But I Keep Thinking About How Much More Fun We Could Have If They Were My Kismesis Instead. Is That Bad?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice Not At All! This Is Once Again An Example Of #quadrantmixing. It Is Completely Natural For #red And #black Feelings To Bleed Into A #pale Relationship. After All, Moirails Take Up A Concupiscent Role When The Other Two Are Unavailable! As For How To Deal With This, You Can Still Do Black Or Red Actions In A Pale Relationship, And It Still Be Purely Pale, As Long As That Is How You Both Feel! From Your Wording It Sounds Like You Just Think It Would Be Fun To Do #blackrom Activities (#suggestive) With Your #moirail, Which Is Okay And The Intended Purpose If This Kind Of Relationship If You Don't Already Have A #kismesis! If Things Are Drifting Into Hateful Feelings, However.. That Is Very Different Question. ♠#quadrantconundrums♦
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "My Ex-matesprit Left Me How Do I Get Her Back? Is There A Going Back?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ ~ This Question Has Been Edited To Protect The Identity Of The User #advice Well, Darling, That Entirely Depends On Two Factors. How Did You Break Up And How Long Ago Was It? ~ If It Was More Than A Perigree Ago, You Should Probably Try To Move On. ~ If The Break Up Was Messy, Or In Any Way Negative Or Bitter, I Would Also Try To Move On. ~ If It Was Both #amicable And Less Than A Few Days Ago, Then Sit Her Down And Talk It Out! Tell Her You Still Love Her, You Want To Still Be #red, And Talk About What Caused The Split. We Cannot Answer Much Without Extra Info, So Please Feel Free To Send In Another Conundrum, Or Comment Below, Or Even Dm Us! ♥ #quadrantconundrums ♥
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "I Think I'm Pale For My Matesprit :(" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #confession Ah. That Is Truly Tragic.. You Should Talk To Them As Soon As Possible. ♦ #quadrantconundrums ♦
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "My Kismesis Hasn't Been Sending Me The Same Kind Of Hate They've Usually Been Giving And I'm Starting To Get Worried That I'm Not Good Enough For Them Anymore? We Used To Be Really Good With Jumping Each Other In The Street But Recently I've Noticed They're Not Scratching Me As Deep And Their Insults Have Gotten... Really Mediocre Compared To What We're Used To And It's Messing With Me. What Should I Do?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice #suggestive? Okay, First Things First You Need To Not Panic. A Lack Of Black Affection Does Not Necessarily Mean Feelings Have Changed! Once You Have Calmed Down, Ask Yourself These Questions; ~ Have They Been Working More Than Usual? Are They More Tired? Does Their Lack Of Interest Branch Out To Other #quadrants And Even Hobbies? - If Yes To Any Of These, Or A Combination, Then This Is An Energy Problem. It May Be Time To Contact Their #pale Or #flushed Alliances To Make Sure They Are Getting The Rest And Care They Need. If They Have Neither, Friends Or Even Yourself Will Have To Take On This Role. Do Not Worry, Part Of A Healthy Pitch Relationship Is Making Sure Your Kismesis Is Fully Fighting Fit! ~ Is This Solely Directed At You? If Yes, Have You Done Something Recently That May Have Changed Their Behaviour? It Could Be Pushing The Caliginous Musings Too Far Or Maybe Your Own Touches Were Too Soft? - Talk To Them. I Know It Sounds Soft But Please, Talk To Them. Ask Them; "did I Push Something Too Far?" Or "did Something Happen Recently Between Us?". No Matter The Answer, You Need To Know Where Things Stand. ~ If The Answer To The Above Is That You Or They Have Done Something Wrong, Or That A Mistake Was Made, Just Apologise. Take Accountability If It Was You, And Acceptance If It Was Them, Talk About How To Avoid It And Move On. Forgive But Don't Forget! ~ If The Answer To The Above Is That Feelings Are Shifted, Then That Is A New Conversation You Need To Have. If They Are Now #red Or If The #pitch Feelings Have Faded.. You Need To Figure That Out Together. above All, Remember You Are Allowed To Be Tender With Your Kismesis. They Are Your Rival, They Are There To Push You To Be Better, And You To Do The Same For Them. Stepping On Them When They Are Down Pulls You Both Back And Stunts The Growth Of Both Of You. You Cannot Cause Wounds If You Are Not Willing To Wrap Them. ♠ ️#quadrantconundrums ♠ ️
Okay We've Officially Decided! 20 Followers And A Combined Kult/kull Score Of 1000 And We'll Do A #teamquad Post! I Know We're Not That Old Of An Account So Setting A Goal Is Kind Of Weird, But We've All Scrolled Chittr Long Enough To Know What's Going On. Logged Out Of Course. None Of Us Actually Have Accounts. ~ Maybe We Should..
That Last One Has Made Me Think.. Should We Introduce #teamquad? Should We Sign Off Our Non-advice Chitts With An Admin Name For Whoever Is Holding The Account In That Moment? We Have A Browser Extension To Change All Our Quirks Into This One But It Could Also Be Funny To Combine All Our Quirks Into One Amalgamation Too- Though I'm Not Sure How Readable That May Be.. #pondering #maybe? #coulddoakultandfollowerspecial
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "What Does One Do If, For The Sake Of A Hypothetical Situation Rather Than A True To Life Experience, They Experienced Interest For One Individual In All Four Quadrants?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ ~ This Question Has Been Edited To Protect The Identity Of The User #advice While Fairly Taboo In Most Places, We Here At #teamquad Actually Have A Human In Our Ranks! This Means We Have A Unique Insight Into #quadrantmixing, A Subject That Often Has To Pried Out Of Our Fellow Trolls As If By An Imperial Investigator. We Understand The Struggles That May Come From Having Such Mixed Feelings About A Person. #red And #black Feelings Tend To Get Confused For Each Other Often, In Our Experience, And #pale And #flushed Feelings Can Suffer From The Same Effects! Heck, We've Even Found That #pale And #ashen Feelings Can Sometimes Be Merged Together! We Can Assure You, Dear Reader That You Are Not Alone In The Way You Feel. The Future Is Now, In The Modern Day Empire Quadrant-mixing Is Becoming A More Accepted Ideal, Even By Those Who Are Far Our Elders. After All, Why Would They Want To Stop The Propagation Of Our Species? If Your Feelings Are Intense Enough For A Quadrant Then What Does It Matter Which Of Those Feelings It Is? Especially Now That (#nsfw) #pale #pailing Is So Widely Accepted. ~ Note: This Paragraph Has Been Approved By A Fuchsia, Please Do Not Send The Drones. With All That Being Said; Your Feelings Are Normal. Hypothetically, Of Course ;) I'd Have A Talk With The Person, If This Is Someone You Would Like To Enter A Quadrant With. If You Have The Rapport For All 4 Of Those Feelings Then Chances Are They May Share At Least 1 Of Those Feelings With You! It May Be Disappointing, But Being Up Front And Communicative With Your Emotions Is The Best Way For You And A Potential #quadrant To Figure Out What You Need From Each Other, And To See If You Would Be A Good Fit At All! If You Do Not See Yourself In A Quadrant At All With This Person, Then Just Let Yourself Sit With The Feelings. It's Okay To Enjoy A Fantasy In Your Head-! It Is Not Hurting Anyone, Even If You Want It To. ♠♣ #quadrantconundrums ♥♦
⋆♤˚⟡˖ "I'm Worried That My Career Has Turned Away Potential Quadmates, Even The Conciliatory Ones. How Do Deal With This..? I Don't Want To Quit, I Enjoy My Work." ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice Well That Is Quite The Conundrum.. If You Enjoy Your Work Then Don't Give It Up, Remember That A #quadrant Is Never A Replacement For A Fulfilling Life! It Should Enhance Your Time On The Planet, Not Be Its Only Purpose. That Being Said, Have People Actually Told You This Or Is It An Assumption You're Making Yourself? No Matter Which, The Right Troll Will Come Along. Don't Ever Change Yourself To Fit What Someone Else Wants. It Is Worth Much More To Be Alone And Happy Than In A Quadrant That Makes You Hide Who You Are And Remain Stagnant. ♣ #quadrantconundrums ♣
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⋆♤˚⟡˖ "What Do You Do If You Want Someone To Hate You, But You Feel Something Closer To… Admiration For Them?" ˖⟡˚ ♤ ⋆ #advice Great Question! First You Have To Figure Out If This Admiration Is Of A #red Or #black Variety. Is This An Admiration Of Their Actions And Character? Or Is It Of Their Physical Prowess? If You Think About The Reasons For Your Feelings Do They Feel Like Your Chest Aches In Want Or Is There A Bubbling In The Pit Of Your Stomach? Either Way, Don't Be Afraid To Explore This Feeling Within Your Sponge. Sit With It, Allow Yourself To Be Alone With Your Thoughts, Do They Fill You With Joy Or Turmoil? There Is No Reason Why You Cannot Admire Someone In A Pitch Way. And Truly, If You Do Desire Something Red, Think.. Why Can You Not Vacillate A Bit? The #quadrants Are Not Straight Lines But Blurred Edges, The Paint Will Seep Between The Cracks Because That Is Simply What Happens When You Trust Someone With Your Soul. ♠ #quadrantconundrums ♥
Hello Chittr! There Are Many Confession Accounts But Not Many Places For Advice, And In This Cold Universe We At #teamquad Believe No One Deserves To Be Alone. Please Fill Out Our Form Below So We Can Offer Any Help We Can! https://forms.gle/jb5cfdcjbfvcywgt6 Warnings For This Account: May Contain Mentions Of #nsfw And #nsfwe Themes, #blackrom And #redrom Will Definitely Be Mentioned, But Of Course All #quadranttroubles Are Welcome To Be Discussed. Please Contact Our Direct Messages For Any Non-quadrant Inquiries. ♠♣ #quadrantconundrums ♥♦