

Kankri V.
@carmineGnosiology
he/him | 9ff-spectrum | adult | Keen adherent 9f the discipline of Pr9blematics. | D9n't call me Signless. ((pfp image by taireierre on tumblr))
@germicidalManiac says: "༊࿐ ✤ ⊹ ࣪ ˖ What goes your personal hyggiene routine look like? Woulg you consiger yourself clean ang tigy? ༊࿐ ✤ ⊹ ࣪ ˖ #S9ap #A6luti9n6l9ck #A6luti9n #SelfCare #Hygiene #Cleanliness #NightlyR9utines #ChitinCare " I'm glad y9u asked. It really warms my 6l99dpumper t9 see Chittr users 6eating the #Terminally9nline allegati9ns 6y taking an interest in pers9nal hygiene. I h9pe my r9utine will inspire m9re t9 f9ll9w in my f99tsteps 9n the path t9wards cleanliness. And yes, I d9 c9nsider myself t9 6e quite tidy. I take pride in my appearance, as we all sh9uld. N9t that it sh9uld 6e an avenue t9 judge 9thers 6y, 6ut 6ecause taking care 9f 9ne's exteri9r has the psych9l9gical side effect 9f impr9ving 9ne's mental status. First, I w9uld like t9 preface this 6y stating that this is my r9utine p9st-sh9wer and pre-recuperac99n. While I kn9w s9me pe9ple like t9 start their nights with a sh9wer, I prefer t9 6athe 6ef9re g9ing t9 sleep instead. 69th 9pti9ns are c9mpletely valid, 9f c9urse, s9 d9 n9t feel 96ligated t9 d9 things my way if y9u are a lifel9ng early evening sh9werer instead. My chitin care r9utine is tail9red t9 my 9wn life, as this is simply what w9rks 6est f9r me. With that 9ut 9f the way, my simple pre-sleep hygiene r9utine is 6el9w. After a warm 6ath 9r a h9t sh9wer, I like t9 start 6y washing my face with a mild, water-6ased cleanser t9 cleanse my face 9f any 9ils 9r grime that might have accumulated during the night. This is especially crucial 9n nights where I have particularly w9rked up a sweat. Next, I w9uld use an exf9liat9r t9 rid my skin 9f any dead 9r dry skin cells, th9ugh I typically reserve this step f9r nights where my skin is particularly dry f9r 9ne reas9n 9r an9ther. I like t9 use a c9arse sugargru6 scru6, like 6r9wn sugargru6, as it is very effective at sl9ughing 9ff skin cells. H9wever, I d9 n9t rec9mmend this if y9ur skin is particularly sensitive t9 r9ugh textures. I als9 d9n't rec9mmend tasting it. The last thing I d9 is spray my face with a hydrating mist, like a hyalur9nic acid spray. This sh9uld 6e self explanat9ry. 9f c9urse, these steps are all 9nly ideal. This d9esn't acc9unt f9r nights where I simply d9n't have en9ugh time t9 dedicate it, whether 6ecause I was far t99 6usy and didn't all9t f9r it in my schedule 9r just did n9t feel like it. Actually, that ends up 6eing m9st nights. #LazinessMenti9n #ItHappens #N9Shame #SideN9te: I am still trying t9 find s9mething t9 reduce the persistent 6ags under my eyes. I have 6een t9ld 6ef9re that they're genetic, 6ut I have yet t9 find any evidence t9 supp9rt that claim. If any9ne kn9ws 9f any pr9ven meth9ds t9 rid 9neself 9f stu669rn under-eye 6ags, please let me kn9w. #SlightlyInvasiveQuesti9n #6utIveLetItSlide #M9rningSh9werVsEveningSh9werDe6ate #NegativeSelfTalk #QnA #Asks #AskKankri https://f9rms.gle/zCX2HpTr9PQAPrG69
@caprici9usWard9g S9, I w9n't 6e p9sting the full c9ntent 9f y9ur questi9n here f9r privacy's sake, as it seemed deeply pers9nal and may6e n9t s9mething y9u want t9 share with Chittr at large, 6ut I d9 want t9 answer it. Ap9l9gies that it has taken me this l9ng t9 get t9 it. Y9u asked a69ut manga rec9mmendati9ns. While I cann9t claim I have an extensive kn9wledge 9f East 6ef9ran graphic n9vels, I am quite cl9se with a few tr9lls wh9 gleefully partake in East 6ef9ran cultural exp9rts (many 9f wh9m are n9t East 6ef9ran themselves #CulturalAppr9priati9nImplicati9n), s9 9ver the sweeps I have f9rmed an 9pini9n 9n a few particular w9rks. Given that y9u have expressed an interest in 6ef9ran hem9caste p9litics in the past, y9u may enj9y this, th9ugh its c9ntent is s9mewhat pr96lematic due t9 the age 9f the w9rk. I suggest pr9ceeding with cauti9n. Eik9ku K9i M9n9gatari Emma -「A 6urgundy6l99ded Hivemaid Waxes Pale F9r A Mime!? Set In The Victr9llian Era, A Demure And M9dest Warm6l99d W9rking As A Live-In Maid F9r A Silent Clergy Catches The Attenti9n 9f A Mem6er 9f The Cl9wnclave After She Accidentally Hits Him In The Face With A D99r. It's Pity At First Sight! ...6ut Will The Rest 9f The Cl9wnclave Accept 9ne 9f Their 9wn Fraternizing With A Lesser? 9r Will He 6e F9rced T9 A6and9n His Way 9f Life T9 6e With His 9ne True Palemate? The Grim Shad9w 9f Caste Inequality L99ms 9ver This Unlikely Pair 9f W9uld-6e C9nciliat9rs And Dares T9 Ask... Is Pity Always This Much 9f A Mess?? 」 Warnings include: #Peri9dTypicalHem9casteism #Victr9llianEraStere9types #P9werIm6alances #Du6i9usWarm6l99dFetishizati9n #QuadrantSmearing #CullSmearing #West6ef9r9philia #West6ef9rusAsSeenThr9ughAnEastern6ef9ranLens #V9w6reaking #V9ws9fSilence #And9therSuchV9ws #MaidC9stumes #Inappr9priateUse9fMaidUnif9rms #Ancest9rlyDisappr9val #UnhappyEnding #Questi9ningIfItIsReallyW9rthIt #When9neHasS9ManyM9reVia6leR9mantic9pp9rtunitiesAvaila6leT9Them As f9r the 9ther part 9f y9ur questi9n, I'll 6e messaging y9u sh9rtly. Thank y9u f9r y9ur patience. #QnA #Asks #East6ef9ranCulturalExp9rts #AskKankri https://f9rms.gle/zCX2HpTr9PQAPrG69
As t9night has 6een th9ughtlessly deemed a cele6rati9n 9f #Lusii and #Pets, Chittr has n9w 6ec9me a h9stile space f9r pe9ple with neither. F9r that reas9n, I will 6e spending the durati9n 9f the night 9ffline in pr9test. If y9u w9uld als9 like t9 j9in me in taking a stand against the m9derati9n team's careless inc9nsiderati9n 9f their user6ase, use the hashtags #LususL9g9ff and/9r #PetP9werD9wn t9 signal y9ur disappr9val 9f this tasteless trend and exit Chittr. If we can get #LususL9g9ff and #PetP9werD9wn trending, the Chittr m9derati9n team will n9tice their users' dissastisfacti9n and 6e f9rced t9 listen t9 9ur demands if they d9 n9t want t9 risk l9sing their m9st valua6le assets - us, the users. If y9u need t9 reach me in these trying times, y9u can message me via DMs 9r thr9ugh my #Ask69x. 9therwise, I 6id y9u all farewell f9r the time 6eing. And please, again, c9nsider j9ining me in my pr9test against unjust m9derati9n decisi9ns. #PetPicSaturday #LususPicSunday #Ask69x #AskKankri #QnA #An9nym9us #Asks https://f9rms.gle/Dv6GuhhF9ffYEyd16
T9 any9ne wh9 has recently sent me an ask either via my #Ask69x 9r my DMs that I have n9t yet answered, fear n9t. I am pr96a6ly n9t ign9ring y9ur questi9n 9r statement 9n purp9se. H9wever, if I d9 ch99se t9 ign9re it, it is 6ecause y9u have sent in s9mething 9ffensive, s9mething trite, 9r s9mething I simply d9 n9t have the mental 9r em9ti9nal 6andwidth t9 answer at this time. If y9u think y9ur inquiry falls under any 9f the a69ve categ9ries, please review y9ur w9rds carefully and c9nsider revising y9ur message t9 rid it 9f any p9tentially triggering c9ntent. Thanks. That said, f9r th9se 9f y9u wh9 might have missed it earlier am9ng the fl99d 9f 9ther users' self-pr9m9ti9n, my ask69x is indeed 9pen at the m9ment, as are my DMs. I like f9rward t9 y9ur th9ught-pr9v9king insight. #AskKankri #Asks #QnA #An9nym9us #Updates #SelfPr9m9ti9n https://f9rms.gle/WGHA2awrFtps9SEy9
After 6eing inf9rmed 9f a sym69l display err9r in the link t9 my ask69x, I am updating 69th its header and its c9rresp9nding tag. I ap9l9gize if y9u have struggled t9 parse the title in the link in the past, 6ut n9w y9u may rej9ice, as I have fixed the err9r 6y ridding it 9f the 9ffending ap9str9phe. Fr9m n9w 9n, y9u can reach me at the link 6el9w and feel free t9 f9ll9w the tag #AskKankri instead. #AskKankri #QnA #An9nym9us #Asks #Amendments #Ap9l9gyStatements #Accessi6ilityMeasures https://f9rms.gle/eYYh1W66k9t2PiAS7
@glitteringAcuity says: "DIRECT EXAMINATI9N TESTIM9NY! my questi9n and starement [sic] is "DIRECT EXAMINATI9N! why are y9u c9nstantly disrespecting tr9lls' First Imperial Indictment Privilege t9 free speech? READING 9NT9 THE REC9RD! asking pe9ple t9 restrict when they w9uld p9st certain su6jects, 9r t9 als9 include a warning when they d9 s9, is cens9rship." READING 9NT9 THE REC9RD! #TWCens9rship #TWC9ntarianism #TWStatusQu9Vi9lati9n #TWIsThisH9wTheseW9rkThisIsStupid #TWTheW9rdStupid #TWVagueAllusi9nT9TheC9ncept9fSex " I have n9thing against a tr9ll's right t9 free speech, and t9 frame y9ur argument in this way is disingenu9us, frankly. The right t9 free speech can 9nly 6e granted 9r taken away 6y a g9verning imperial 69dy, which y9u will find that I am n9t. T9 imply that I am engaging in acts 9f cens9rship implies that I have any legal 9r auth9ritative p9wer t9 rem9ve an9ther pers9n's g9vernment-granted rights. In d9ing s9, y9u paint me as an 9ppress9r class and 6est9w up9n me an am9unt 9f privilege that I d9 n9t p9ssess as an 9ffspectrum tr9ll. I am sure y9u d9n't mean t9, 6ut this attitude t9wards caste-atypical tr9lls such as myself plays directly int9 hem9casteist rhet9ric that depicts us as scape6leat6easts f9r anything wr9ng with s9ciety, simultane9usly influential en9ugh t9 enact great 9ppressive evils and inferi9r en9ugh t9 6e inherently deserving 9f unjust persecuti9n. S9, n9, me asking pe9ple t9 6e a little m9re mindful 9f the 9nline experiences 9f the pe9ple they share a platf9rm 6y *p9litely* requesting a limitati9n 9f NSFW matters is n9t cens9rship. It is simply me enc9uraging pe9ple t9 c9nsider 6etter curating their Chittr feeds f9r themselves and 9thers. #AndT9Y9urTags #N9 #ItIsnt #6utIAppreciateY9urValiantEff9rtN9netheless #Cens9rship #C9ntrarianism #StatusQu9Vi9lati9n #VagueAllusi9nT9TheC9ncept9fSex #Superflu9usTagging #KankrisAsk69x #QnA #Asks https://f9rms.gle/eYYh1W66k9t2PiAS7
Every evening, Chittr users talk a69ut "h9rnyp9sting h9urs" as if it takes place during a set timeframe and n9t s9mething that happens 9n a seemingly h9urly 6asis as s99n as 9ne pers9n gets a little t99 69red. Pers9nally, I w9uld 6e all f9r scheduling h9rnyp9sting h9ur happening at a single, regularly 9ccurring time, s9 I c9uld kn9w in advance when n9t t9 6e 9nline. Please, 6e mindful 9f the fact that n9t every9ne is interested in seeing y9ur #NSFW p9stings at all h9urs 9f the night. S9me users w9uld like t9 actually use Chittr f9r its intended purp9se 9f f9rging a c9mmunity 9f 9ther intellectuals. #NSFW #NSFWMenti9n #Vaguep9sting #TypingH9rnyp9stingT99ManyTimes #ChittrSuggesti9ns
@tantalizingG9nads says: " what are y9ur r9mantic and sexual preferences? n9 need t9 divulge in every detail if y9ure unc9mf9rta6le with expressing everything 9f c9urse " Thank y9u f9r resp9nding s9 kindly t9 feed6ack. I appreciate this c9urse c9rrecti9n and y9ur willingness t9 listen and learn. H9wever, my r9mantic and sexual preferences are irrelevant. I am a steadfast practiti9ner 9f #Celi6acy, and as such, I have a firm disinterest in f9rming any r9mantic 9r sexual 69nds with any9ne regardless 9f what my 9rientati9n may 9r may n9t 6e. #Celi6ateLifestyle #Celi6ateUnlifestyle #R9manceMenti9n #SexMenti9n #Asks #QnA #KankrisAsk69x https://f9rms.gle/DhZsipmzRC6ih9N68
@tantalizingG9nads I w9n't 6e answering y9ur questi9n. I will give y9u an9ther chance t9 su6mit s9mething else if y9u w9uld *actually* like t9 talk t9 me, 6ut this time, try keeping y9ur #NSFW inquiries t9 y9urself. There are hundreds 9f individuals 9n this platf9rm wh9 appreciate questi9ns 9f that nature, and I am n9t 9ne 9f them. #Questi9nRejecti9n #6utReally #WhatWereY9uExpecting #Asks #KankrisAsk69x #QnA https://f9rms.gle/DhZsipmzRC6ih9N68
An9nym9us says: " 6unny suit, put it 9n. #Please " While this is a much m9re p9lite request than the previ9us ask I answered, I will still 6e declining. If this is meant t9 6e a suggesti9ns f9r my #KultMilest9neCele6rati9n, I think we can think 9f s9mething a little 6etter than me dressing up like a h9p6east. I d9 n9t wish t9 pr9v9ke the ire 9f the #Therian, #9therkin, #Furry, 9r #H9p6eastkin c9mmunities 6y appr9priating their 6eliefs and cust9ms. 6esides, I d9n't even 9wn a 6unny c9stume. #DeclinedRequests #Asks #An9nym9us #QnA #KankrisAsk69x https://f9rms.gle/DhZsipmzRC6ih9N68
@6eware6eeWare says: " h9ney, ii thiink y9u 2h9uld try drag iit miight fiix whatever y9u g9t wr9ng wiith y9u. #Drag #6eingA6eautifulW9man #D9ItH9ney #WinkyFace " N9, I w9n't 6e d9ing that. T9 6e clear, I am secure en9ugh in my #Gender t9 kn9w that there is n9thing #Emasculating a69ut dressing up as a w9man, even if the practice d9es n9t pers9nally interest me. I supp9rt any9ne's right t9 experiment with their gender presentati9n and identify h9wever they ch99se. 6ut I take issue with y9ur asserti9n that there is anything "wr9ng" with me t9 6egin with, and that I am in need 9f fixing. The way I dress is actually n9ne 9f y9ur 6usiness, and it's rather presumptu9us 9f y9u t9 think y9u 1) can judge anything a69ut my character 6ased 9n the cl9thes I wear, and 2) have any right t9 dictate what I sh9uld and sh9uldn't d9 with my appearance. N9w, if y9u w9uld like t9 have a rati9nal, civilized discussi9n a69ut the culture 6ehind perf9rming drag and the 6enefits y9u pers9nally find in #Cr9ssdressing, I w9uld 6e m9re than happy t9 engage in an educati9nal dial9gue with y9u. 6ut I ask that y9u n9t dare assume t9 kn9w the state 9f my mental health 6etter than I d9. Thanks. #Presumptu9us6ehavi9r #Cr9ssing69undaries #Menti9ns9fMentalHealth #AndSt9pCallingMeH9ney #9verlyFamiliarNicknames #QnA #Asks #KankrisAsk69x https://f9rms.gle/DhZsipmzRC6ih9N68
Apparently I passed the 5k kult thresh9ld with9ut even n9ticing. 9f c9urse, I n9rmally pay n9 attenti9n t9 things like kult, kull, 9r f9ll9wer c9unt, as these are meaningless metrics designed t9 divide us and s9w disc9rd am9ng 9ur c9mmunity. It's 6y pure c9incidence that I happened t9 n9tice t9night. I certainly d9n't kn9w what recent p9st 9f mine pushed me t9 5k, and surely it has n9thing t9 d9 with that manga. Anyway, despite the *extreme* unimp9rtance 9f kult t9 my 9nline presence, I have t9 admit that it is kind 9f nice t9 kn9w that pe9ple are engaging with my w9rk s9 regularly. F9r that reas9n, I have decided I sh9uld d9 s9mething t9 cele6rate this achievement. I'm just n9t sure what yet. If any9ne has any suggesti9ns, please let me kn9w either in a c9mment 6el9w, in a DM, 9r in my #Ask69x that I will 6e linking 6el9w. As always, 6e mindful 9f y9ur tags, and kn9w that I reserve the right t9 refuse t9 answer anything as I s9 ch99se. #TheMeaningless9fCele6rati9ns #KultIsUnimp9rtant #6utSinceWeAreHere #KultMilest9neCele6rati9n #Suggesti9ns #TakingSuggesti9ns #SelfC9ngratulati9n #Asks #KankrisAsk69x #QnA #An9nym9us https://f9rms.gle/q98m4PsJSynW6HG77
I decided t9 spend this evening cleaning my hive in an attempt t9 j9g the writers' 6l9ck I've 6een afflicted with. Alth9ugh residing in the dream 6u66les means I can simply c9njure my surr9undings h9wever I wish with a simple th9ught, I still find a sense 9f catharsis in 6eing a6le t9 d9 things manually, as it keeps 69th the mind and the 69dy in peak physical c9nditi9n. H9wever, my attempts t9 tidy my living6l9ck were quickly derailed when I reached my 699kshelf and f9und this very... c9l9rful example 9f East 6ef9ran literature, t9 put kindly. I d9n't even kn9w where it came fr9m. 96vi9usly it sh9uld g9 with9ut saying that this is deeply 9ffensive, and this n9vel makes a m9ckery 9f the very real struggles that 9ffspectrum and caste-atypical tr9lls have had t9 face in the past (9r present, depending 9n what iterati9n 9f 6ef9rus y9u are l9cated 9n in parad9x space). This manga plays 9n 9utdated and gr9ssly pr96lematic stere9types that depict 9ffspectrum tr9lls as 6eing particularly prudish, sex negative, and 6eing incapa6le 9f making inf9rmed decisi9ns a69ut their 9wn r9mantic interests with9ut the inv9lvement 9f c99ler6l99ded tr9lls. After all, 9ffspectrum tr9lls are regularly r966ed 9f aut9n9my via the 9utdated and frankly 6ar6aric practices 9f culling, which this manga gleefully ev9kes with9ut any c9nsiderati9n f9r the ways its negative depicti9ns 9f 9ffspectrum tr9lls may affect its readers. The pr9tag9nist is c9nstantly 6eing denied a chance t9 v9ice his (her? their? pr9n9uns unclear - an9ther area where this manga fails at pr9per representati9n) 9pini9n 9f the unf9lding situati9n. N9t t9 menti9n the way it f9rces its warm- and c99l6l99ded deuterag9nists int9 stere9typical p9siti9ns 9f their 9wn. Any p9ints t9wards pr9gressivism this manga *may* have sc9red f9r putting a 6urgundy6l99ded tr9ll in the rare p9siti9n 9f culler are immediately negated 6y putting her in the r9le 9f a sexual aggress9r t9wards the 9ffspectrum pr9tag9nist, calling t9 mind a l9ng, c9mplex, and shameful hist9ry 9f depicting warm6l99ded tr9lls as sexually de6ased and shamelessly pr9miscu9us, especially in c9mparis9n t9 the m9re "civilized" (n9te the scarequ9tes f9r #Sarcasm) sexual expressi9n 9f the s9cietal elites, ie., c99l6l99ds and sea-inha6it9rs. The 6urgundy6l99d is quite literally dem9nized; n9te the epithet 9f "dem9n" in reference t9 her relati9nship t9 the pr9tag9nist, and c9mpare that t9 the vi9let6l99ded "angel". If this manga had any c9nsiderati9n f9r its audience and wanted t9 treat its ficti9nal characters like real pe9ple and n9t just a vehicle t9 spread harmful, 69rderline fetishistic rhet9ric, the auth9r w9uld have instead de-emphasized the r9le 9f quadrant-9riented r9mance in these characters' lives. Instead, the three sh9uld have f9rmed a str9ng, plat9nic 69nd with 9ne an9ther, united 6y their shared interest in w9men's cl9thing. #The6u66lesW9rkInMysteri9usWays #6utSeri9usly #Wh9seIsThis #L99kingAtY9uMeulin #East6ef9ranCulture #East6ef9ranCulturalExp9rts #Manga #CullingMenti9n #6ef9ranCulling #Hem9n9rmativity #9ffspectrumDiscriminati9n #Hem9casteStere9types #AntiRec9mmendati9ns #MediaReviews
An9nym9us says: "y9u pr96a6ly missed the n9nsense a69ut twink 96literati9n 6ut curi9us if y9u'd c9nsider y9urself a twink. i d9n't think s9, y9u're very hands9me. respectfully in a celi6ate way. #Twinks" N9, I w9uldn't c9nsider myself a twink. My understanding 9f the term twink is that it applies primarily t9 gay 9r h9m9sexual males, and as I am n9t attracted t9 men, 9r n9r attracted t9 any9ne at all, I am inherently exempt fr9m this s9rt 9f classificati9n. 6esides, if I had t9 pick 9ne, it'd 6e 9tter. 6ut m9st imp9rtantly, even if I were attracted t9 men, I reject the premise 9f categ9rizing 9neself in terms 9f 69dy shape 9r 6uild t9 6egin with. S9ciety needs t9 m9ve past the rhet9ric 9f judging 9ther pe9ple 6ased 9n their physical attri6utes. Particularly if 6eing a twink means getting "96literated". Alth9ugh I am missing the exact c9ntext 9f this statement, 96literati9n always carries negative c9nn9tati9ns, and I d9 n9t wish t9 su6ject myself t9 any s9rt 9f physical, mental, em9ti9nal, 9r figurative duress. #Twink96literati9n #Intrac9mmunitySlang #69dyImage #ThankY9uF9rTheC9mplimentTh9ugh #InACeli6ateWay #An9nym9us #QnA #KankrisAsk69x https://f9rms.gle/1mzxNi3S8sAc8Ter9
I am happy t9 ann9unce that my #Ask69x is 9nce again 9pen f9r the evening. Since I'll 6e 9ffline f9r a while, I ap9l9gize in advance if my resp9nses aren't timely en9ugh f9r y9ur liking. F9r that reas9n, please d9n't send any urgent, time-sensitive inquiries. https://f9rms.gle/DhZsipmzRC6ih9N68 #KankrisAsk69x #QnA #An9nym9us #D9ntMakeMeRegretThis
@handMaid In the spirit 9f inf9rmed c9nsent, and 6ecause I kn9w as my friend that y9u respect me and w9uld certainly never d9 anything t9 rile me up 9r irritate me 9n purp9se, I'll answer y9ur questi9ns in as g99d 9f faith as p9ssi6le. Since n9t every9ne is familiar with what it means t9 6e celi6ate, I understand there may 6e s9me "edge cases" that require further ela69rati9n, lest 9ne accidentally cr9sses a limitati9n with9ut meaning t9. I'm answering this in the f9rm 9f a separate chitt and n9t a reply f9r any9ne else wh9 happens t9 visit my page in the interest 9f answers. The f9ll9wing is an in-depth elucidati9n 9f my th9ughts 9f my 9wn 69undaries. #Celi6acy manifests differently f9r every9ne wh9 decides t9 pledge themself t9 this lifestyle, s9 I d9 n9t intend t9 speak f9r every9ne, 9r even f9r 9ther Kankris. D9 n9t take this as an invitati9n t9 test these 69undaries, especially if we are n9t already acquainted. #NSFW and #ImpliedNSFW warning applies t9 all text f9ll9wing this line. 1, 2, 3, 17. N9. 4. I really can't imagine why I w9uld 6e in this situati9n t9 6egin with. 6ut this is als9 a n9. Directly aiding in s9me9ne else's sexual gratificati9n is as much 9f a vi9lati9n 9f my celi6acy as receiving sexual gratificati9n fr9m s9me9ne else. 5. I can't imagine why I w9uld 6e in this situati9n either. 6ut I supp9se if a friend 9f mine really, really wanted t9 have their windchute internally stimulated, and if there is n9 genital c9ntact happening whats9ever, and my hyp9thetical partner and I remained fully cl9thed, then I might p9ssi6ly 6e c9nvinced t9 9ffer a hand. 6. This is t99 vague f9r me t9 9ffer an 9pini9n 9n, s9rry. Unless 6y fr9nd stuff y9u mean handh9lding. Then sure. 7, 8. As a #Sexp9sitive #9penminded #N9tPrude #Ally, there is n9thing wr9ng with finding ways t9 let 9ff steam s9l9. This is n9t t9 say that it is an act that I engage in regularly 9r even at all, as I have plenty 9f 9ther 9utlets with which t9 9ccupy my time, 6ut *if* I did, it w9uld technically 6e in keeping with my c9mmitment t9 celi6acy. 9, 10. While these are als9 technically 9kay, it is n9t an activity I'd ever participate in. I have n9 interest in self pailing in the presence 9f an9ther pers9n, regardless 9f their level 9f inv9lvement in the situati9n. 12. If I had a pr96lem with this as a c9ncept I w9uld have 6l9cked y9u and the maj9rity 9f 9ur friends a l9ng time ag9. This isn't an excuse t9 up the ante. I am just 6eing realistic. 11, 13, 14. I want t9 p9int 9ut here that there is a distinct difference 6etween intenti9nal v9yeurism and *happening* t9 enter a space where 9ne 9r m9re tr9lls are sexually stimulating themselves. 9r, w9rse, 9ccupying a space when tw9 tr9lls then decide t9 f9rnicate, ign9rant 9f the fact that y9u were there first. In the case 9f the latter tw9 examples, I am well within my rights t9 remain in the space, and if they did n9t want s9me9ne t9 9ffer an 9pini9n, disappr9ving 9r 9therwise, they w9uld have ch9sen t9 either vacate the area 9r l9ck the d99r. 15. S9metimes it's unav9ida6le. Alth9ugh I d9 wish y9u and P9rrim w9uld learn t9 6e a little m9re discreet. D9 y9u think I *want* t9 listen t9 y9u tw9 all m9rning? S9me 9f us have 6etter things t9 d9 6e d9ing with 9ur time and d9n't wish t9 6e distracted. 16. Fine, if it's purely accidental, th9ugh I w9uld exercise cauti9n anyway. S9me tr9lls' h9rns are er9gen9us z9nes and thus are particularly sensitive. See my resp9nse t9 #4. 18. This depends entirely 9n the level 9f 9penm9uthedness inv9lved. Lip-t9-lip c9ntact can indeed 6e plat9nic in s9me cultures. 19. Kissing "anywhere" 6ut the face is als9 far t99 vague f9r me t9 pr9perly 9ffer a m9re in-depth 9pini9n 9n. As a catch-all answer, h9wever, I draw the line at anything 6el9w the waist6and 9f my sensi6le high-waisted pants. 20. This is... fine? I have 9ccasi9nally shared drinking vessels with friends and it has never 9nce even cr9ssed my mind that this *c9uld* 6e sexual. If this is s9mething that m9st pe9ple interpret sexually, please let me kn9w s9 I can rectify my 6ehavi9r. #GreyAreas #EdgeCases #DiscussingEdgeCases #Edging #SelfPailing #S9me9neElsePailing #SelfPailingWithS9me9neElse #Mastur6ati9nHa6its #V9yeurism #UnwittingV9yeurism #AccidentalV9yeurism #Emphasis9nAccidental #SimulatedPailingScenari9s #Hyp9theticals #Emphasis9nHyp9theticals #Celi6acy #Chastity #A6stinence #N9nsexuality #Inc9nsiderateHivemates #G99dFaithInterpretati9ns #H9weverDeservedItMay6e
Anyway, I've 6een receiving a fair 6it 9f a push6ack f9r my use 9f the #MPREG tag (sh9rt f9r #M9ndayf9rP9sitiveRelati9nshipEthicalGl9rificati9n) as a pr9p9sed alternative t9 #MatespritM9nday 9r #M9irailM9nday. And I understand y9ur c9ncerns. Really, I d9. I kn9w it's atypical f9r s9me9ne such as myself with n9 interest in r9mance t9 weigh in 9n the g9ings-9n 9f the r9mance-9riented, and there may 6e s9me c9ncerns that I am trying t9 speak 9ver pe9ple. H9wever, my g99d friend Meulin @amusingCaterwaul has recently c9rr969rated my pr9p9sal. And as a self-pr9claimed expert 9n all things t9 d9 with r9mance and shipping, I am m9re than happy t9 defer t9 her auth9rity when it c9mes t9 the su6ject 9f MPREG. In fact, I dare say n9 9ne kn9ws as much a69ut MPREG as she d9es. Thanks, Meulin. I greatly appreciate y9ur supp9rt. #End9rsement #Testim9nial #Supp9rt #Appr9val #C9signed https://chittr.ing/pr9file/amusingCaterwaul/f5365782-a443-470e-8d43-ef998a47f716
9ut 9f curi9sity, I t99k the #LightDarkTriadTest that's trending, and as I suspected, there is clearly s9mething wr9ng with its meth9d9l9gy. All 9ne has t9 d9 is read even 9ne 9f my p9sts t9 kn9w that I'm n9t narcissistic. If y9u have als9 received less than fav9ra6le results, I w9uld n9t put much st9ck int9 it if I were y9u. The 9nly pers9n wh9 has any right t9 judge y9ur character is y9u.

















